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    I'm having a bit iof an off day. I pulled an allnighter in college adn somehow watching the sun rise reminded me of waking up with DB Yea it was a bit bittersweet and I'm trying to cope with that feeling. Hopefully I'll be able to talk to him later today. It's like I have those days where I'm ok with it being this was and then the tough days mix in. Have you done anything to keep yourself busy?
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    Yes I've read about that kind of thing to. DB and I have been together for almost 2 years now and when I went home crying about him having ot leave my mother gave me the are you sure this is the type of relationship you want to be in speech. It honestly wasn't what I wanted to hear from her so coming here was a big relief since no one was telling me you should find someone whose not in the military. everyone here is telling you exactly what you want to hear and giving you a lot of hope and advice about being in a military relationship. I honestly have to say that you have to make sure you really love the person otherwise what you're going through with the waiting wont be worth it. Since you've been with him fora few weeks you might not be as attached which I'm actually a lil jealous of since it makes the separation easier. What do you have in mind to do over the summer?
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    That's exactly how I felt when I found the site, as for advice DB is currently beginning his first 6 month deployment overseas and everyone's advice to me so far has been keep busy. At first I though about small ways to keep busy since the summers on its way here. Things like reading a stack of books, or taking an exotic dance class came to mind. Since I'm a college student I figured I could get a summer job and taking some classes at a local college and that would pretty much make the summer pass quickly. I think the first step for anyone or at least for me is realizing that just because he's gone doesn't mean you can't function. It took me awhile to figure that out and it was a about a 2-3 week crying period after he told me he was getting deployed. I think the worse part was waiting for him to leave because he was still here but I knew he was going to be gone soon. Once he left 10 days ago) things got easier. I'm realizing that I can use the time to relax and think about myself and what I want to accomplish while he's in the military. I definitely wanted to better myself while he was gone (exercise programs and such are my plan) and expand my interests. Have you gotten past the initial he's gone phase yet?
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    Hey girl my names Allie and me and DB are going through our first deployment as well. This site has been a dream for me because its full of people who are so supportive and positive about military relationships. I bet we can be great friends PM once you've got enough posts or just post a message on my wall
  6. Hi everyone, My names Heather and im new to this site. My current Boyfriend is on his way overseas on his first tour and im getting a little worried already so i figured i could find someone who is going threw the same situation as me to keep me going threw this and make these 9 months fly by! If anyone has ANY advice im willing to listen. Anyone.
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July 20
About Heather_Lynn
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Marine Corps
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Poughkeepsie, NY
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Im currently 18 years old, I love to cook and write
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We have been dating a little while now and hes such an amazing carefree person so just wants to make everyone around him happy, Hes perfect.


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