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    Hey Jess! I've missed you! What have you been up to?
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    He is getting much better! Still has appointments to go too but he is getting there. enjoy these couple of weeks!
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    Just wanted to let you know that my boyfriend and I split up... Partly mutual, partly him. I'm alright, but I'll probably be on here less than I am now.. because I'm here so much these days...
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    Still at Walter Reed. DF is doing better. It hasn't been easy, but he is making progress. Hopefully will be transferred to the VA at home soon.
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    i hope you are ok!! he really is a wonderful guy for doing that!! pm me if you'd like to talk!!!!
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    im so excited, now i have! im such a dork!!! ty!
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    lol! would you be my friend??
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    I've heard that too. You really have to want to do that if you do it. That's why I'm so unsure. They also don't have a program for it at my school, so I'd have to tri-college (stay enrolled here and take the classes at another school in town) or transfer.
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    I'm looking at math. I'm also thinking of maybe doing special ed. I don't know yet. But math right now. I want to teach 7-8th graders ultimately right now.
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About J_Conk
Not yet, but hopefully some day
Current Location/ Duty Station:
New York
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
We went to High School together, but didn't start dating until about 6 years later.
About Me:
Well, I'm 22 years old and I just graduated from college! I have a B.S. in Music Education, so I'm looking for a music teaching job. I sing, mostly classical, a lot of Broadway, and a little opera. I am an ELCA Lutheran. I have 2 parents, 2 sisters, 3 dogs, a cat, a dwarf hamster, and 2 turtles, plus there's my old roommate's puppy who I lived with for a year and miss dearly. I like to ride my bike and take walks in the pouring rain. I guess that's about all. Message/PM/AIM me if you want to know more! I love making friends.
About Us:
Bobby and I went to High School together. We worked on the plays together. He was the football/wrestling/lacrosse playing stage manager, and I was the geeky, chorus loving, props manager. He's 2 years older than I am so we weren't very close then, but we ended up having a lot of mutual friends. After HS he joined the Army, left on deployment and I didn't see him for years. After he got back he switched to the Reserves, and I started seeing him more and more often, and at the start of summer after my sophomore year of college we finally figured out that we liked each other... Now, 2 years later, we're still going strong.
Interests & Hobbies:
I love to sing. I love animals. I love children. I love my church.
Dream Sheet:
He's not a career military person... And honestly I just want him to be finished.
"Music is like candy - you have to throw out the rappers."
-a 6th grade boy in a chorus that I taught

I literally listen to everything except rap (and I even make exceptions to that rule). I listen to classical, pop, ska, country, hip-hop, reggae
I don't watch much TV. When I do I stick to really bad television. American Idol is my guilty pleasure.
... Oh, but this site DID cause my addiction to Army Wives!
Too many to name.
Well now that I've graduated I might actually get to read a book that I want to read!
Unemployed Music Teacher
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by J_Conk on 10-12-2008 at 10:27 AM
Well... I've come to realize that I use this blog when I really need to vent about something, but don't want to be a downer on the boards...
I'm kind of hating MSOS today... I want my DB home so badly... and there are homecoming threads all over the place... AND I WANT MINE! I've been doing great lately. I'm always happy. I miss him, but I haven't cried about it (before now) in ages. I think I'm PMSing... I'm not sure though because I've been irregular ever since I started hanging out with

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by J_Conk on 08-12-2008 at 11:08 AM
Well... I realized I only post in here when I'm in a bad mood... Or upset about something... So anyone who reads my blog probably thinks I'm a serious basket case.
I'm doing better now. Bobby's been online more. I can handle things when I get to talk to him. I know things are different over there, and I shouldn't expect him to be himself, but I was worried he wasn't really feeling attracted to me... He wasn't asking for pictures.. Or webcam fun... And I started to feel like maybe he was

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by J_Conk on 08-11-2008 at 12:38 AM
I'm not strong enough for this...
I'm falling apart...
I just want him home...
I'm not even CLOSE to finished with this deployment. I don't know how I'm going to survive the rest of this...
He talks to me less and less every time I see him online... I'm scared... What if he forgets about me? What if he gets too used to being without me? What if he stops loving me?
How am I supposed to spend another 9-10 months feeling like this? This is now the longest we've

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I'm freaking out...

by J_Conk on 08-10-2008 at 01:55 AM
I think I'm having a panic attack... My hands are shaking... I can't stop crying... I don't know how I'm supposed to do this... He's still not going to be home for another 10 months. Right now I honestly feel like I can't do it. I'm going to do it - for him - but it's killing me. I don't want to live without him. I need him so much right now. I'm at a really hard point in my life, and I need him here for me. He tries, he really does, but I need his arms around me. I need him to kiss my head and

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I was doing SO well

by J_Conk on 07-24-2008 at 01:25 PM
I was doing so well. I stopped crying every 30 seconds. I actually haven't cried in a LONG time. Yesterday was the first time I didn't hear from him and DIDN'T worry like crazy.
I was doing SO well.
And then today I got my first letter from him. I feel as crappy as I did the day he left. I cried as soon as I saw his hand writing. It was SO sweet. He sent a card and two letters all in the same envelope. I miss him so incredibly much, and I won't see him again until at least november

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