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  1. My bf is a higher rank and is stationed in Japan. He sent me a message on the first day he was there and I have not heard from him since. I dont know why but I have a bad feeling I may not hear from him again. He has recently visited me a couple times but has left everytime to do something else in the mince of visiting me. first time was to go and tend to his propery that he has her were I live. second time he came he stayed for two days and left for two weeeks to go and get his daughter so they could meet his long lost father. He recently found out that his father of his childhood was not his real father and went to meet him and the family. He was distant when he was gone and apologized for it when he came back. When he did get back he got there on a Sunday @2PM and had to leave sunday at 8pm to go back to Hawaii because they wouldn't let him off work. He did say that he new it was a lot to ask of someone with so much going on and he would understand if I didn't want to continue the relationship. I asked him if that was what he wanted? He said no. He says he has no social media. I have no way of contacting except email with no response yet. Do you have a spouse of just a friend that is deployed? sorry for the long
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    Hello, posted a message back and somehow I deleted it haha still learning. Anyway i was saying it's hard to know if it's normal to not hear from someone for 10 days because everyone's situationot is so different. After reading quite a few posts it sounds like Some have daily internet access and some have very little. Is he deployed? My "friend" is deployed in the middle east somewhere. Have you tried messaging him like through FB messanger and seeing if he has read the messages? It must be so worrisome not knowing how he's doing or if he is ok.
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    Getting a grasp on all of this is tough. I feel so alone too since I don't have anyone to go out with. I'm trying to do stuff like work out or read to distract myself but it's not really working.
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Marine Corps
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I met him online
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im a mother of three kids and a full time student in respiratory therapy.
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I love to lift weights, bike,swim..ect
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