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    Oh gosh, I don't blame you. I'm sorry you're having a rough time of it. That's such a difficult situation but you're being very strong, don't forget that!
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    You're completely right. Let him figure it out. You're being very mature about this and I really wish you the best of luck. Distance is difficult and heartbreaking, but if you can make it work it is so rewarding because the reunions are amazing. I hope you come to a decision soon that works for you and keeps you happy instead of wondering/confused. Keep me posted! And really, please vent whenever you need to. When you have enough posts to pm me feel free also!
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    That's so difficult. I really do understand how you feel though. I was in love with DB for a long time before I did anything about it. I feel as though you can have a relationship with him to some extent no matter how far away he is. Lots of letters, care packages if you feel like it, and visits as often as you can. If you want to be with him and feel like he wants to be with you too, maybe suggest trying it long distance for a month or so? If you dont think he wants to do long distance, make it clear that you still want him in your life (because it seems like thats the case) and that you're here for him. You can have a relationship with someone without being with them exclusively, which was a hard lesson for me to learn. I dont know...what do you think? If you think you both still have feelings for each other then remember, you CAN do something about it. Try a month of long distance. It sucks at first but then it's worth it if both parties really truly want it.
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    Well I think you're definitely on the right track. I was "friends" with DB for 3 years...long distance...before we started calling it what it was and dating exclusively. The reason we didn't date sooner was exactly what you're dealing with right now: the distance is difficult and being involved in the military makes relationships hard sometimes. I think if he's important to you, you should try to stay in contact and be there for him, but don't be afraid to attempt to get past your romantic inclinations towards him and pursue someone else. After a while, when he settles into his military life he might be ready to try something again, but it isn't something you can force and you have to let him do what he thinks is best for him. I'm sorry if that's not what you want to hear. I don't think there's anything wrong with telling him how you feel and what's bothering you. Maybe you guys should stay in touch through letters? How often will you/do you see him?
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    Fill me in again on the situation briefly? Did you apologize for the things that you said? Sorry, it has been a while since I read your thread. I'm so glad you messaged me though! I'll do my best to give some solid advice...r just let you vent
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    yes, lots better. DB and i get into little fights here and there but when we are together it all better. you learn to cherish the time you have together.
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    that is good news, don't worry you will be find.
  8. Well good news, he took his ASVAB today and scored in the 95 percentile...So he said he's hoping for something air traffic control related. Proud, but still kind of freaking out.
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    yeah, just try hard. All the girls and a few guys have been through this. so you're not alone
  10. Ya...not going to lie, i feel like it's never worth it as much when something is easy.
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About Lost_in_Love
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Current Location/ Duty Station:
Madison, WI
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
At registration for our freshman year of college at UW-Madison. We've been together for a year since then; living in the same building freshman year, making great memories together.
About Me:
I'm a 19 year old student currently attending UW-Madison. I'm not 100% what I want to major in, so I would be okay with transferring if I discover a school that would be better for me. I have participated in a variety of activities such as volleyball, tennis, wrestling (as a manager), band & jazz band, and volunteer work. I come from a blended family of 6.
About Us:
We've been together for close to a year now, but the process of enlistment and all that is to come has been scaring us. He thinks that it will be nearly impossible to stay together through his enlistment, but I am willing to sacrifice and try to make it through. Hopefully we can be strong and stay together.
Interests & Hobbies:
Tennis, music, watching many of the Badger's sports teams, the Packers, and spending time with my family and friends.
Dream Sheet:
Doesn't really matter as long as I can stay with him..


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