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    Your signature pic (petting zoo) almost made me spit out my drink!
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    Hey would you mind reading my latest post and giving me advice? Things have taken a turn for the worst 😥
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    Oh nice. Well at least it's not 100 degrees there. I'm back in Chico and dying from the heat already. Plus it doesn't help that I have to work at 6 am M-Th :/
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    Yea I agree. I want to stick things out. And I do believe he is in a funk because he text me the other morning and expressed that he was stressed about work and us. He said he didnt know what he is doing anymore and that he missed what we had. So I just need to figure out how to help get us out of this rut.
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    We have been together almost 9 months. We have been very close to breaking up over things but he keeps reassuring me that he doesnt want that. I have asked him about 10 times in the last 2 weeks because it has been that rough between us. I know he loves me. I know he wants to be together. I just don't know how to get past this crappy stage. I was thinking of backing off a lot bc generally men get more intense and committed when you do that.
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    It has been going on for a few months now. And I am not saying that I haven't done my share in this. He says it is because I haven't been as nice to him. And that would be because he did some things to break my trust....does not excuse my actions. So I have been working on being trusting and nicer. I just felt as though he wasn't interested in putting in effort with me.
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    Yea I have but I get the normal...."I have a lot on my mind" comment. Im just at my wits end with this and I am ready to end things because Im tired of things being like this. I need more and Im getting nothing. I just don't want to make a rash decision to end things and it be a big mistake. Im so lost.
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    Hey so advice? My DB is leaving in March for duty. He says he wants to try to work things out between us. And lately we have been going through some things. He used to do so many things like text me sweet things, call me often, and hated being apart from me. Now things are not the same at all. He seems more distant. What do you think I should do with that? Should I be worried?
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    I came back to San Jose this weekend for my mom's birthday but I will be back up on Sunday. Are you up there for the weekend?
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    Oh wow thats pretty far but it could be way worse. I guess I should start posting more to open up the message thing lol. I probably do know some of your friends and you probably know some of mine as well who are psyc majors.
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About Jessym

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Date of Birth
March 26, 1988 (34)
About Jessym
No, with no future plans of kids
Current Location/ Duty Station:
Me: NorCal Him: Oklahoma
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
We met in High School.
About Me:
I'm Jessy, 24, and I live in Chico, Ca. where I go to school studying Psychology. I love the outdoors, movies, music, hiking, camping, the beach, snowboarding, driving, pretty much anything you can think of. I'm also in a sorority and I love it.
About Us:
Our story is kind of long and a little complicated. We met in HS but never dated. Graduated in 06, started "talking" in March 2010. Started dating on July 9, 2010 when he was in the Marines. We had a pretty rocky relationship mostly due to my own insecurities. He deployed to Japan that September and then he came home at the beginning of April 2011. He proposed on Easter 2011 which was April 24. However, we started fighting and things between us became really rocky. I was scared and not ready for marriage like I thought. I had issues so I ran. We broke up and talked for a couple months after that but never got back together. We stopped talking almost completely shortly after that and I never saw him for two years. Then, I wanted to go visit him this summer. I had extra money, time, and I thought I had been over him for a while by then. I also had other friends in his town, too. Two years had gone by and I'd had other relationships and me and Rich were just friends. I never EVER imagined he still cared about me. Anyway, I go to visit him and sparks flew the second I saw him. I played it off but we really connected over that week. We talked about everything and he told me he never stopped loving me. He only pushed me away because he knew I needed to focus on myself and my education which is true. If I'd known he still loved me, I never would have let go. So, he gave the chance to grow up, heal, and get over my problems and now we're perfect for each other. I still love him with all my heart and he does too for me. We started dating again June 24, 2013 and we couldn't be happier.
Interests & Hobbies:
i'm into the outdoors. I'm in love with snowboarding and i like to rock climb and go to the beach. i'm a major movie buff.
pretty much everything. Some favorites are Jason Aldean, Carrie Underwood, Air Supply, and The Offspring.
How I Met Your Mother and The Big Bang Theory
billy madison and Breakfast at Tiffany's.
Harry Potter


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