nervous about the wedding??

[jlbecker]

So ladies..I'm having this recent anxiety about the wedding. I know it's kinda normal but I'm so afraid the he's going to say, last minute, that he can't marry me! I know it's stupid and all he ever writes is how he can't wait! but this thought just hit me like a ton of bricks this morning!
did anyone else ever have these thoughts as your wedding was approaching?

[HollySunshine]

Originally Posted by jlbecker So ladies..I'm having this recent anxiety about the wedding. I know it's kinda normal but I'm so afraid the he's going to say, last minute, that he can't marry me! I know it's stupid and all he ever writes is how he can't wait! but this thought just hit me like a ton of bricks this morning! did anyone else ever have these thoughts as your wedding was approaching?

Thats totally normal hun! Just ignore it and just realize that he loves you and that i'm sure he will never turn back! Best of luck!!!

[HollySunshine]

also remember that he is probably feeling the same way too hun

[SezzySue]

everyone said how normal it was, but to be honest I wasn't nervous to marry him, but that everything would go smoothly (which it did not)

[Bex]

you still have time

[Sam*]

[SIMMYBABEZ]

YEP!!!!!! I had the same. Its just wedding anxiety. You hope and pray soo much that everything will turn out perfect.. u just start creating more fears in your head. It's totally normal- just relax ok. If he didn't want to marry you, he wouldn't be so keen. The wedding will go off without a hitch and the day will be perfect. You will tear up when he is reading his vowels, and you will laugh when he stumbles on a word. Trust me.

[~Stephie~]

we both had anxiety about it, but it was just us being scared about how things would be after we were married and the responsibilities! We talked it through and we were fine! He was worried I wasn't feeling that way and I was worried he wasn't feeling that way, but we were both needing to just get it out and after that we were both so excited we couldn't hold it in!! LOL!!

[navyaowife2005]

Originally Posted by SIMMYBABEZ YEP!!!!!! I had the same. Its just wedding anxiety. You hope and pray soo much that everything will turn out perfect.. u just start creating more fears in your head. It's totally normal- just relax ok. If he didn't want to marry you, he wouldn't be so keen. The wedding will go off without a hitch and the day will be perfect. You will tear up when he is reading his vowels, and you will laugh when he stumbles on a word. Trust me.

Very Well said!!! I totally agree!!!!

[LaurenBeth]

deep breathes.... it is normal. All will work out perfect!!