So since I was born with a heart defect I have to be monitored yearly and I have to get a good echocardiogram before I try to have children. Not that I did with my first son but i was supposed to. So I went to the cardiologist yesterday and absolutely nothing has changed to date. The measurements are still exactly the same as before I had kids.

So now we're free to try for another baby. We're going to stop preventing first and just see what happens since that has worked for us in the past. My youngest son took about 3 months to conceive just by my getting off the pill. So I guess we'll see. I'm so excited because we wanted our next chlid to be about 2 years younger than my youngest now. Thats the age gap between my kids now and they get along great and there was no jealousy.
SO wish us luck. We'll see what happend. I'm hoping to conceive before my husband leaves.