It hurt {TMI}

[SezzySue]

DH And I have been for something like 5 years now. At first it took a lot for me to be able to take all of him, but whatever I got used to it. Ever since it only hurts after deployment.

Last night I had some helpful CM so we decided to go for it, but it hurt. He couldn't even go 1/2 way in. I wasn't dry so I didn't need lube or anything, but it just hurt. And he wasn't hitting my cervix as has happened in the past.

I am only on CD 13 right now and I don't usually ovulate until CD 20, so I am not connecting them as being related.

But it was weird, and it made it harder for him to finish because he had to be cautious.

Anyone deal with this? We are desperately trying to get pregnant, but this isn't helping any.

[TarynD]

Other than one time, the only times it has really hurt like that for me is when I was pregnant... Is there any chance you are now? I really hope the other ladies can give you some good answers, and I'll be sending lots of prayers and baby dust your way.

[Ash Mark's.]

Me and DF are never together for a long enough time at once for me to get used to his size. I get frustrated, so I can only image whats going through his head. What we usually do is spoon, and he can go farther that way without hurting me. Also, if I lay with my butt in the air and face on the pillow it's easier as well, not as easy as on our sides, but easier nonetheless. Those are really the only ways we've found so far that he can come close to going in all the way without it hurting me.

[Brittany Rashel]

Originally Posted by TarynD Other than one time, the only times it has really hurt like that for me is when I was pregnant... Is there any chance you are now? I really hope the other ladies can give you some good answers, and I'll be sending lots of prayers and baby dust your way.

That was one of the only times it really hurt for me either, and then of course after a long seperation. I sometimes am pretty tender if we have sex too much. Have y'all been having sex more than normal lately?

[SezzySue]

it wasn't sore from too much, its been 3 days. And I doubt I could be pregnant because I just had a period. I could only wish that was the case. I am able to do other positions, but usually him on top is how we ease into things, but that hurt, so I wasn't willing to do others.

Thanks for replying ladies.

[Hisbabydoll]

It hurts for me when i have a yeast infection. But i am really sensative.

[oxtete101ox]

I agree with the other ladies, since I've been pregnant for me has hurt too. It's not dry or anything it's just almost like a friction type feeling, very weird.

[I_luhv_my_marine]

It usually only hurts the first time we have after hes been gone for a long time. After that im usually pretty good. I hope you get pregnant soon tho. I'll send some baby dust your way.

[~KittyKat~]

Well is it a pain like from friction or is it like a crampy pain??? If it is skin irritation and burning I would be looking out for signs of a yeast infection, or your pH could be a little off.

If it is like muscle crampiness, the only time I have experienced that is right now while pregnant, and it didn't start happening till maybe 15 weeks along when the baby started getting big enough to cause any amount of pressure.

If it continues, get it checked out by the Dr.

[SFgirlfriend]

vaginismus?