new to ttc. ...kinda

[his little miss]

Hey ladies. Well my husband and I have a son, David who will be two in dec. I was not sure I wanted to have another child because my pregnancy was hard. Watching my son play with other children vs being alone has really caused me to just suck it up, cause in the end it's more then worth it. When I got pregnant with David ad knew for sure we wanted to start our family but did not pull out a calendar and try on the specific days. This time around I have been hoping I was pregnant just to find out I'm not yet so we are trying trying! I have my calendar with my days marked. .... I was told to only have sex 1 time every 24-48 hours while I am fertile so his sperm count is higher.... that is about all the info I have been given and I am just wondering if you ladies have any other tips to add......also I feel like this is a silly question but I have to ask. .... does it make a difference to go shower and clean up right after? Thanks ladies and I pray we all get pregnant!

[ashblaine30]

i wouldnt clean up after, lay there for about 15 mins if you can. I put a pillow under me. I got pregnant both times following everything I found on Babycenter.com. Some people dont do anything different others do. you can try that site and see if it helps you. Good luck!

[his little miss]

Ok. Thanks: -)

[oxtete101ox]

just stop trying, DF and I tried for what seemed like forever and my last cycle I had just given up I didn't even care, and BOOM PREGNANT!

[mrsgalloway]

on TTC!!!
We have been trying for 9 months now and still no baby. ugh lol But I am keeping my hopes up, and not letting me down.
I do what the others do, afterward's don't even move, don't get up don't laugh just lie there with your bum in the air!
Better than getting up and going to the bathroom only to let all those spermies out

[Germanchick]

The book 'Taking charge of your fertility' is supposed to be wonderful and very helpful when TTC.

[mrsgalloway]

Originally Posted by Germanchick The book 'Taking charge of your fertility' is supposed to be wonderful and very helpful when TTC.

I have that and yet to read it, should read it really shouldn't I... instead of being on here all the time!

[Germanchick]

Originally Posted by mrsgalloway I have that and yet to read it, should read it really shouldn't I... instead of being on here all the time!

I personally haven't read it but as I said have heard wonderful things about it. ODD was conceived while I was on BCP and YDD was conceived 2 months after I got off bc.

[~KittyKat~]

Pre~seed worked for us!! It's a sperm friendly lubricant that helps the little spermies swim around better.

[his little miss]

Thank you ladies! And I will keep you all posted: -) tonight is one of those nights: -) glad we are sexually active people, makes it fun! Hehe!