i wonder if anyone feels the same way

[tuli444]

so im young. and yes i got married young... but besides that... i was just wondering if anyone just moved down here to san diego.... or even anywhere and they feel alone. you dont know anyone. your best friends are all back home... i was just wondering if anyone felt like they couldnt get along with their neighbors or are still trying to make new friends because of their new moves. im feelin pretty lonely as a military wife without a kid.... anyone else??????

[steph23]

I felt like that when i lived at ft. drum, then i met some of dh's friends wifes. Just give it time you will find friends.

[silverrein]

Hon, I'm going to be going through exactly what you're going through next year. I'm sure you're not alone.

[sorraia]

To be honest I haven't moved any where and am feeling that way. Most of my friends have moved away or are so busy with their own lives. Very few people understand what it's like. I do have a friend in 29 Palms I should try to reconnect with, but that's still so far away it'd be hard to meet up for coffee or whatever. My in-laws distance me and alienate me (unintentionally - which in many ways makes it worse because they don't even realize they are doing it and can't/won't do anything to change it). My family doesn't even live close, except my father who is hard to deal with in many ways. Make it worse I'm "between homes" right now and living with my father - and he's become increasingly harder to deal with, partially because of the stress of my husband being deployed and me being worried, dealing with problems with the prior landlord, not having the space or privacy I need/want, and trying to find a new home and figure out some major issues.

[tuli444]

not to insult or anything... but thank god. im 19 almost 20...... and i dont have a kid and a lot of dh's friends have wives with kids... much older than i...... n i feel lonely away from my whole family and my best friends.... if i made friends with another 19 year old i feel like they wouldnt understand what im doing.... its a very lonely world.... unless a 30 year old wants to hang out with an energetic and wild 19 year old

[destiny]

i hope you find some people to talk to!

[Ma*Becca]

Originally Posted by tuli444 not to insult or anything... but thank god. im 19 almost 20...... and i dont have a kid and a lot of dh's friends have wives with kids... much older than i...... n i feel lonely away from my whole family and my best friends.... if i made friends with another 19 year old i feel like they wouldnt understand what im doing.... its a very lonely world.... unless a 30 year old wants to hang out with an energetic and wild 19 year old

Well welcome to SOS, and San Diego... Don't isolate yourself because of your age and not having kids, you might be missing out on some really cool friends. Where exactly are you? Are you in housing or have a place of your own with your husband?

I'm turning 30 next week BTW

[EmilyS88]

Thats how I was when we moved to Hawaii. I was there for two years and made one friend and then she moved.....its rough trying to make friends

ETA: I was also 19 when we got married and moved. I feel your pain I still am going through the same stuff no babies and not many friends.

[Nichole]

I feel the same way! I moved to Monterey back in January and I still pretty much don't know anyone here and it sucks! I don't have any kids and the people I have met all have kids and kind of treat me different sort of like a child. I'm sorry you are feeling that way it sucks!

[tuli444]

Originally Posted by Ma*Becca Well welcome to SOS, and San Diego... Don't isolate yourself because of your age and not having kids, you might be missing out on some really cool friends. Where exactly are you? Are you in housing or have a place of your own with your husband? I'm turning 30 next week BTW

im in housing up in bayview hills. I live with my husband. and happy early birthday~! lol