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    I was wondering if anyone knew the requirements for living in military housing with a non spouse.....
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    I was wondering if anyone knew the requirements for living in military housing with a non spouse.....
    You can't. The military doesn't recognize anyone who is not legally married. �� sorry.
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    My soon to be ex husband has moved his gf into military housing and when I called the housing office asking about the rules they just gave me the runaround. Im frustrated!
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    My soon to be ex husband has moved his gf into military housing and when I called the housing office asking about the rules they just gave me the runaround. Im frustrated!
    Once you're divorced he will probably have to move back into the barracks unless he qualifies for BAH based on rank. That should solve that problem. Also how is she able to get around? Without an ID she can't go shopping or get on base by herself
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    Quote Originally Posted by jjs79 View Post
    My soon to be ex husband has moved his gf into military housing and when I called the housing office asking about the rules they just gave me the runaround. Im frustrated!
    They probably don't want to get involved.

    My old neighbors got to live in base housing because the barracks were full. He had 2 of his military friends, and their civilian girlfriends living there as well (thats 6 adults total). Housing didn't care. They have rules about roommates but how well they enforce the rule is hit or miss.

    Anyway, at one point he'll have to move back to the barracks since he's no longer married.




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    Quote Originally Posted by kt_bug View Post
    Once you're divorced he will probably have to move back into the barracks unless he qualifies for BAH based on rank. That should solve that problem. Also how is she able to get around? Without an ID she can't go shopping or get on base by herself
    If she's not military herself then he probably got her a 30 days visitor's pass.




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    Are you just trying to start trouble for them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by idratherbehiking View Post
    If she's not military herself then he probably got her a 30 days visitor's pass.
    or if she is a federal employee she can get herself on base. I never had a problem getting on any base I just couldn't shop until I got married.

    OP honestly it sounds like you're just trying to make drama/ a hard time for him. I would recommend moving on and focusing on you instead of what he is doing.
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    I know someone who has 2 kids with a guy in the military and they have been together like 16 years but never married. She lives on base with him at their current station and has to be escorted on every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wild*Rose View Post
    or if she is a federal employee she can get herself on base. I never had a problem getting on any base I just couldn't shop until I got married.

    OP honestly it sounds like you're just trying to make drama/ a hard time for him. I would recommend moving on and focusing on you instead of what he is doing.
    That too!




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