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    Duh SPOUSE HOME FOR WEEKEND HELP

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    My boyfriend is allowed home for the weekend. I last saw him three weeks ago when I was visiting him in Mississippi. His parents haven't seen him for months and I am staying home today to let them spend time together. I am ecstatic to be able see him again but why am I feeling guilty?? I feel like I am sucking up his time when his parents would like to spend it with him. We all spend time together so it's not like he's solely with me. We all get along great but I can't help but feel guilty for "taking up their son's time" when he could be spending it solely with them. His parents would never tell me to leave and I've asked him numerous times if he wants me to come over for a day vs the entire weekend so he has more time with them. Opinions, thoughts, comments please! Or am I being dramatic
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    My boyfriend is allowed home for the weekend. I last saw him three weeks ago when I was visiting him in Mississippi. His parents haven't seen him for months and I am staying home today to let them spend time together. I am ecstatic to be able see him again but why am I feeling guilty?? I feel like I am sucking up his time when his parents would like to spend it with him. We all spend time together so it's not like he's solely with me. We all get along great but I can't help but feel guilty for "taking up their son's time" when he could be spending it solely with them. His parents would never tell me to leave and I've asked him numerous times if he wants me to come over for a day vs the entire weekend so he has more time with them. Opinions, thoughts, comments please! Or am I being dramatic
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    I think it's great that you are so considerate! Why are you questioning yourself?
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    I'm sure his parents understand he wants to see his girlfriend.
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    Don't give yourself a complex about this. It's very nice that he's spending a whole day with his parents, but it's completely normal and okay for you guys to make each other a priority, too.
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    Merged two like threads into original thread. Please do not create duplicate threads in different areas of the board as it is against TOS.
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    Hello! I am curious who initiated seeing each other? I personally feel like if he only wanted to spend time with his family he would let you know or at least hint at it. Plus, if you notice his family gets along with you, I wouldn't see why it would be a problem. I would make sure they feel like the time they shared with you is appreciated by just simply saying thank you.

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