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    Can I take care of this?

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    DW just got her orders (shes in Techschool) and I told her to look over them and make sure I'm listed as a dependent. As things go, I'm not on there. We want to start looking at housing and taking care of things for or upcoming move so this is a minor hold up.

    She's very busy so I'm wondering if I can go to a local base and have the orders ammended without her there. I have an ID card so no issues there. Anyone know if it's doable?
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    Seems very unlikely. Are you just not on the orders or are they totally unaware that you are her dependent?
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    Probably not. She'll have to talk to her detailer.

    If her orders were overseas, it's also possible that they are unaccompanied orders if there needs to be a certain rank for dependents to be allowed.

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    Unfortunately, that is the responsiblity of the member. She will need to go to her admin support at the school house and find out what happened.





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    Nope she will need to get it fixed there. She needs to talk to her instructor about it.
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    Yeah, she's going to have to speak with someone about that. Has she added your to DEERS or did somebody just screw up her orders (whether forgetting to add you or giving her unaccompanied)?

    Sorry about the hold up!
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    Thanks for all of the replies. I'll let her know she'll have to handle it.

    I'm in her DEERS so I think someone just messed it up.

    We're just going to TX so it's not that pressing. Just trying to figure it all out well in advance.
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    the info you want should be on the last page-

    there will be verbage that states " Dependents Authorised" not all orders have names on them,

    this will be in the same place as the PCS allowances and PCS info.

    for many branches this is on the last page.
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    This scares me lol. DH just filled out dependent paperwork today with his recruiter. Does this kind of thing happen alot where dependents dont get put on orders? I hope not :/
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    Quote Originally Posted by gunsgirl View Post
    the info you want should be on the last page-

    there will be verbage that states " Dependents Authorised" not all orders have names on them,

    this will be in the same place as the PCS allowances and PCS info.

    for many branches this is on the last page.
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    In all these years our names haven't ever been on the orders, only "Dependents Authorized" or "Accompanied - dependent travel authorized", or similar. At best it has listed number of dependents, but never the names.

    I would have her check again to make sure they simply say Accompanied or some form there of. Name is not needed, because you are shows as dependent via ID card.

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