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    Is it me or the upcoming deployment?

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    I'm not sure if this is in the right spot, so if not I apologize ahead of time.

    So lately well not lately but the last few times DH and i after he says we need to more often. He always wants me to ignite . Well there will be times that i want to have with him but he just like sits there. I'll touch him in places and he will get up but he doesn't even do anything about it.

    I feel like he either is no longer attracted to me or need to spice things up. Then I think maybe its the upcoming deployment? I don't know what it is.

    What should i do? Should i try to spice things up? If so, how? Should i just let it go? :ugh
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    I think it might be the upcoming deployment, but I'm not sure :/
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    The upcoming deployment might have him worried/thinking too much. Guys don't think very often so when they do you know it's serious (<-Kidding, just trying to make you laugh!) On a serious note though the only thing you can do is try to talk to him about it AND yes spice things up a bit.

    Try these things?
    Roleplaying..you could be a nurse, teacher, coach, Russian model in distress? lol anything you want to be!
    You could try different places (DF and I made a list of all the different places and then made it our mission to add a few more before he left...epic!)
    Send him unexpected dirty texts.
    Get those under the bed restraints
    Wear new lingerie... I hope some of these help!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveBug21 View Post
    The upcoming deployment might have him worried/thinking too much. Guys don't think very often so when they do you know it's serious (<-Kidding, just trying to make you laugh!) On a serious note though the only thing you can do is try to talk to him about it AND yes spice things up a bit.

    Try these things?
    Roleplaying..you could be a nurse, teacher, coach, Russian model in distress? lol anything you want to be!
    You could try different places (DF and I made a list of all the different places and then made it our mission to add a few more before he left...epic!)
    Send him unexpected dirty texts.
    Get those under the bed restraints
    Wear new lingerie... I hope some of these help!
    guys really don't, that's how i know its serious with DH. ha!

    I'm thinkin of his basketball jersey from HS. The different places is a good one. I've been telling him we need to different places.

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