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    DB and I are 4 months into a year deployment and I'm missing him terribly. But he acts like he doesn't care. I don't expect him to gush about me on his FB but he is always talking about how many things he looks forward to doing when he gets back, but hardly talks to me about missing me.

    I'm not trying to be selfish about this, but is this stand-offishness normal? Should I take it personally?
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    It could be a defense mechanism for himself or he may not want to burden you. I wouldn't take it personally until you two have an opportunity to really have a good talk about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LynnAFWife View Post
    I wouldn't take it personally until you two have an opportunity to really have a good talk about it.
    At this rate, I don't think we'll have a good talk until he's home.

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