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    Inappropriate Much? --Found out why

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    DB's dad just got a new job and he moved out of state, in fact he moved really far from Utah. I have met him a few times and though we were on good terms with everything, he gave DB a hard time about proposing to me and finally asking the question..

    But what DB told me his Dad said today has me really ticked/confused. He told DB that he could hook my DB up with some cute engineers that he works with now.

    Uhh? wtf? You know we've been together for 4 years now and we plan on getting married and living together by the end of this year? DB told him that his comments were really inappropriate but he's made more of them since then..

    DB said there must be an alterior motive and he has to find out what it is. But honestly, you just don't say things like that when you already consider me your daughter in law..

    Like, now I am going to be so awkward to his Dad and know I cannot trust him. Like I want to defriend him from my fb because that is just not okay with me.

    **UPDATE**

    for reals? Its all because I posted on my fb about how my uncle had glued my bathroom contractor mirror to my wall and the cabinet to the wall and how it was idiotic because now we'd have to redo the drywall.

    & his dad said people do it for stability, to which I had said my relatives did it because they were in a hurry to finish the house and things slacked, thats why there's numerous other problems with our house that were done cheap and wrong.

    So that makes me an arrogant know it all and warrants DB to find a new GF.

    oh please- I do not have time for immaturity.
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    thats really crappy
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    I can't stand when parents are like that. Does he have a problem with y'alls relationship? Either way, very inappropriate and tacky.
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    ...Eww. I'm sorry his dad is acting like that.
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    I would block and defriend him. Trust your DB, don't worry about the father and don't allow him to impact your life. Leave him to his issues and just keep enjoying your life. You know your DB won't take him up on it so why give it anymore power in your life.





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    That isn't appropriate in any way. I would be weary and cautious about his father if I were you.
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    That is so inappropriate. Wow.
    I'm sorry his dad is acting like that
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilinkgirl View Post
    thats really crappy
    it is

    Quote Originally Posted by Mary4 View Post
    I can't stand when parents are like that. Does he have a problem with y'alls relationship? Either way, very inappropriate and tacky.
    he asked when we were going to have kids back in January. It's just really odd and really not cool

    Quote Originally Posted by ChandyPandy View Post
    ...Eww. I'm sorry his dad is acting like that.
    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    I would block and defriend him. Trust your DB, don't worry about the father and don't allow him to impact your life. Leave him to his issues and just keep enjoying your life. You know your DB won't take him up on it so why give it anymore power in your life.
    Thanks I do trust DB 100% he's never been like this before though I'm going to let DB handle it and stay out of it, but I can't but feel weird about the entire thing. I'm not scared DB would do it, just that I thought his family and I had a good relationship, his dad has offered for me to move to UT and come live with them.

    Quote Originally Posted by thoseredkeds View Post
    That isn't appropriate in any way. I would be weary and cautious about his father if I were you.
    I am now, I just didn't expect that this would ever come up.

    Quote Originally Posted by IHaveHisHeart View Post
    That is so inappropriate. Wow.
    I'm sorry his dad is acting like that
    thanks its just so weird.
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    That's disrespectful to you and your DB. Why the hell would he insult his own son by trying to hook him up with some other chick? He needs to trust his son's decision about wanting to be with you. I'm sorry to hear this.
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    I edit my fb specifically for him and watch what I post because of him. He is religious and I am not, so I stopped posting any of my own beliefs on my own facebook so he wouldn't be all upset and bitching at DB for it. But for crying out loud, grow up.
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