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    When all love is lost...HELP!

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    What do I do?!??? I have almost a year into a long distance relationship with an airman. He is stationed in Germany & I'm in GA. I have been under the assumption that he did not have a fb one of my friends pretty much ran across it and he has an ENTIRELY different relationship it seems going on. There is a girl who posts frequently calling him love nick names and tags him in her pictures. I dont know what to say or think when it pertains to him. Im so angry but more hurt. When I confronted him abt it his reaction was "Why do u feel u have to check up on me on FB I just activated the page? That is a girl i used to deal with in the states waaay before u and it just didnt work out. Idk why she doing all of that on my page" So he really expects me to believe this person is delusional when he controls all aspects of that page. I know its just a social network but this is all making me re-evaluate putting my all into him for it to go wasted. Idk what to do!
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    I'm so sorry about that. I don't really have any great advice, but if you ever need to talk you can PM me.
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    Listen to your instincts. You know the truth here and you deserve better.





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    While no one can say for certain if he is lying or not, your gut is telling you (as I am sure its telling most women on here, including myself) that he is lying to you. Fully. It seems he may have another relationship going on, and who knows if its only one. He may have 2 or 3 other girlfriends for all you know. You do know he has lied to you, at least about Fb, if not more, and trust is broken. All you can do now is decide if he has stopped lying to you (doubtful) and keep the relationship, or end it. I suggest not persuing someone who can easily blatantly lie to you, for weeks if not months.

    So so sorry you have to deal with this. He is not worth your time.
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    trust your instincts on that, its hard to tell if he's lying or not I guess...


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    Quote Originally Posted by chaiela View Post
    I just activated the page?
    Are there any breaks in his or other peoples' posts on his Facebook? If not, then he didn't just activate it...
    if i never see you again i will always carry you
    inside outside

    on my fingertips and at brain edges

    and in centers
    centers of what i am of what remains
    --- charles bukowski.

    time to eas, baby!
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    I would listen to everyone else and go with your gut.. mine has NEVER failed me!!!
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