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    Question Am I being over sensitive?

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    So I bought DF a Samsung Galaxy S 4G for Valentine's Day. I paid like $400.00 for it that I'd worked really hard to save up.

    I get a call from him today saying that he wants to know if T-Mobile will "flash" phones because his boss said he'd get him an iphone from Verizon and wants to know if he can get it put on T-Mobile so that he can use it as his personal phone...I JUST BOUGHT HIM A NEW PHONE! I realize he's not wanting to buy a new phone but I literally just got that one and worked really hard to get it for him because he said he really wanted it!

    I'm so hurt, it's like he doesn't give a shit that I worked hard to get that phone and he doesn't understand why I'm upset. I tried to explain it to him but he doesn't even act like he cares...

    Am I being over sensitive about this?


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    I'd be hurt, but I'd also consider which phone he'd been wanting. If he's been talking about the iPhone for months, I'd be hurt but understand.
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    I'd be hurt considering it takes me a week to make about 300 dollars. So saving to buy him a gift like that... yeah I'd be pretty angry. Why isn't he happy with what you gave him? What's he going to do with that phone?


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    Quote Originally Posted by KatyB View Post
    I'd be hurt, but I'd also consider which phone he'd been wanting. If he's been talking about the iPhone for months, I'd be hurt but understand.
    See that's the thing though, he'd been talking about the Galaxy for months before I got it for him! Tmobile doesn't have iphones

    Quote Originally Posted by briannanoel View Post
    I'd be hurt considering it takes me a week to make about 300 dollars. So saving to buy him a gift like that... yeah I'd be pretty angry. Why isn't he happy with what you gave him? What's he going to do with that phone?
    Because he's never happy with one thing long, he gets something he wants then he finds something new and wants to upgrade a couple months later...I guess we'll just sell the phone


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    I'd be a little hurt. You saved up and you where excited to get it for him.

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    Galaxy S > Iphone



    I have the same exact phone and I LOVE it. I'm going to use this one till it poops out on me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mandeebee View Post
    I'd be a little hurt. You saved up and you where excited to get it for him.

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    Galaxy S > Iphone



    I have the same exact phone and I LOVE it. I'm going to use this one till it poops out on me.
    That's how I feel too...I have the same phone as well (I've had mine for about a year now) and I love it.


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    I'd be hurt.


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    Meh, he's probably thinking "free phone!" and then sell the other one to pocket the money. Overall, you'd be ahead financial wise. I don't know if that's what he's thinking though. I'm pretty frugal about stuff like that
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    Aw I'm sorry. That would crush me too I wish that he had listened to you too! Did you try to explain how you were hurt about the phone/money or hurt about his quick reaction, or both?
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    I would be bothered by that too.
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