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    saw my roommate's boyfriend on a dating site- I told her!

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    Perusing the internet for datable men today, when I stumbled upon my roommate's boyfriend. It wasn't just his profile.. it said he was "online now". Also said he was single.


    FTR, this is the roommate I more or less hate. I probably shouldn't say anything right? I don't know any other information.



    update-- he has looked at my profile twice now. So he knows I know

    update... he keeps looking at my profile! wtf.

    update again! So I just told her, and she said they are still together but she doesn't care that he's on there (they are exclusive though ). She also said he told her that I saw him on there. Whatevs.
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    Stay. Out. Of. It.

    You aren't being malicious not saying anything. It's not your business and you think she's difficult now? She will blame this on you.
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    Yeah, I would keep it shut. She will find out on her own and the last thing you need is to piss off someone you already can't stand and have to live with.

    Sucks to be her though!


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    If it were a close friend I'd say tell her. But a jerkass roommate? Meh.




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    Quote Originally Posted by LynnAFWife View Post
    Stay. Out. Of. It.

    You aren't being malicious not saying anything. It's not your business and you think she's difficult now? She will blame this on you.
    If you say anything...somehow it would turn out to be your fault if you guys already have a not-so-great relationship...You don't need any more tumult going on in a place that you have to live
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whitla View Post
    If it were a close friend I'd say tell her. But a jerkass roommate? Meh.
    This. Unless she's someone you are close to I would stay out of it.

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    The only thing that concerns me was that I clicked on his profile out of curiosity and to make sure it was him, but that means he will see that I looked at it. I don't know if that matters.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FruitPunch. View Post
    The only thing that concerns me was that I clicked on his profile out of curiosity and to make sure it was him, but that means he will see that I looked at it. I don't know if that matters.
    I still wouldn't say anything. I doubt he'll tell her.

    that is incredibly weird though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LynnAFWife View Post
    Stay. Out. Of. It.

    You aren't being malicious not saying anything. It's not your business and you think she's difficult now? She will blame this on you.


    This is a smarty pants lady. I would take her advice and keep my lips zipped....
    Put on your big girl panties and deal with it like a boss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jordana View Post
    I still wouldn't say anything. I doubt he'll tell her.

    that is incredibly weird though.


    though the really awful part of me is thinking "but if they break up I won't have to hear them anymore!"
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