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The latest "moment"
lasted 4 days.
It started out with an argument with DD, add in some heat, and the 4th of July, top it off with a tussle between a deer and our dakota and end up with a PTSD veteran in flashback mode, a wife who is emotionally hurt and extremely confused. It took us about a day and a half to even discuss it, but between the 4th of july, the heat, and hitting the deer which caused a huge flashback, he was in self preservation mode and would do anything to get home (his safe place). We had some long, much needed conversations, and I think we have grown some through this. Oh, and hubby is physically OK from the deer incident, the deer RIP, and the dakota, so far the damage is 2500.00.
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Don't let the little things bug you, so what if he wants to go out with his friends for a couple of hours, or **** around on the computer, at least he's with you. So what if there's socks on the floor or the toilet seat is left up, at least he was there --Me
Love is like a booger. You keep picking at it until you get it, then wonder what to do with it. --Unknown
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