I think it's getting to the point.... - PTSD

Laurie119 · 10-11-2007, 10:36 PM

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*Brooke* · 10-11-2007, 10:43 PM

thats scary im sorry. i hope things get better!!!

tinsygrl · 10-11-2007, 10:47 PM

That sucks... but it will get better!

Godders_Girl80 · 10-11-2007, 10:50 PM

Wow....I hope you guys work something out soon. Good Luck.

Mak327 · 10-11-2007, 10:57 PM

that is scary. at least he was ok when you moved him off.

Maybe, before you move to separate beds, try building a "wall" out of extra pillows between you two. That way you are both still there, but it is a bit of a barrier between you two until he can get through that aspect of being home

LuvnMySoldier · 10-11-2007, 11:15 PM

with what your saying.It's possible it could have been a nightmare.Im sure he just didnt realize that he was on top of you.

My db has PTSD.And if he is having a hard time.He likes to be held.So maybe thats what yours wanted.

Laurie119 · 10-11-2007, 11:20 PM

Originally Posted by Mak327

until he can get through that aspect of being home

He has been home for 2 1/2 years, been hospitalized once for suicidal ideation, once in a PTSD treatment program and is about to be hospitalized again in a different program (at the end of this month). I think we're way past that point and just trying to deal with things as they come.

Caimbrie · 10-11-2007, 11:30 PM

Gosh, I think about your situation a lot. I feel so awful for the both of you.

I'm really sorry. I truely hope it gets better.

Brandi · 10-11-2007, 11:40 PM

thats pretty scary. Even though it may have scared you, I think it might be scarier and possibly more traumatic for him to be away from you though? My grandparents have slept in separate beds for about 15 years b/c of my grandpa's snoring and they have a wonderful marriage otherwise. So, it's not the end of the world if you have to

PrincessBlue505 · 10-11-2007, 11:52 PM

Wow-I really hope things start getting better for him. I really feel for you guys.

10-11-2007, 10:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
Laurie119 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 3,851 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 24% Longevity: 97%	I think it's getting to the point.... * __________________ Don't let the little things bug you, so what if he wants to go out with his friends for a couple of hours, or ** around on the computer, at least he's with you. So what if there's socks on the floor or the toilet seat is left up, at least he was there --Me Love is like a booger. You keep picking at it until you get it, then wonder what to do with it.** --Unknown Last edited by Laurie119; 12-22-2007 at 01:29 PM.

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Brooke Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,426 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 36%	thats scary im sorry. i hope things get better!!! __________________ Wifey to ~~Katie~~ She totally Rocks my socks!

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Godders_Girl80 I love my 13B SPC Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ft. Drum, NY Posts: 4,918 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 38%	Wow....I hope you guys work something out soon. Good Luck. __________________ Beauty Tips for Black Women

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Mak327 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Roswell, GA Posts: 3,087 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 0% Longevity: 41%	that is scary. at least he was ok when you moved him off. Maybe, before you move to separate beds, try building a "wall" out of extra pillows between you two. That way you are both still there, but it is a bit of a barrier between you two until he can get through that aspect of being home __________________

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LuvnMySoldier Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Maryland Posts: 4,705 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 20% Longevity: 40%	with what your saying.It's possible it could have been a nightmare.Im sure he just didnt realize that he was on top of you. My db has PTSD.And if he is having a hard time.He likes to be held.So maybe thats what yours wanted. __________________

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10-11-2007, 10:47 PM	#3 (permalink)
tinsygrl Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 3,501 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 47% Longevity: 40%	That sucks... but it will get better!

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Caimbrie MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Goose Creek, SC Posts: 40,117 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 73% Longevity: 69%	Gosh, I think about your situation a lot. I feel so awful for the both of you. I'm really sorry. I truely hope it gets better. __________________

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Brandi “If you want the last word, apologize.” Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 39,594 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (3) Activity: 21% Longevity: 99%	thats pretty scary. Even though it may have scared you, I think it might be scarier and possibly more traumatic for him to be away from you though? My grandparents have slept in separate beds for about 15 years b/c of my grandpa's snoring and they have a wonderful marriage otherwise. So, it's not the end of the world if you have to __________________

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PrincessBlue505 Loving being a MOMMY!!! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pensacola, Florida Posts: 4,748 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 8% Longevity: 65%	Wow-I really hope things start getting better for him. I really feel for you guys. __________________