Your pregnancy

[Rach]

I know there's a few of you on here who say you love being pregnant. I have to ask, were you ever in serious pyshical pain to where you could barely walk anywhere or sit or just any pain to wehre it was consistant and not here and there?

I can't believe someone would be in pain like that, especially the entire last 3 months since that's when a lot seem to experience it, and still say "I love this!"

I didn't mind being pregnant until I got to the 3rd trimester. This last month, especially has been really hard on me. I was fine until I started getting the pains. Lately, I can't walk, sit, or lay w/out cringing and tears about to fall. I'm normally very good at handling pain & trying to control it w/ my mind but forget it this time!

Makes me feel bad when I read about how some of you love being pregnant and here I am complaining. I just wonder if it's b/c some have easier pregnancies than others?

I know if I could be active and not have the consistent pains, I'd be peachy keen

[CoffeeGirl]

I LOVED LOVED LOVED being preggo each time!! The ONLY pain I had was with dd when she pushed HARD on my lungs & ribs! OUCH!!!

[Rach]

You are lucky! I hope the next pregnant for me will be like that...I'm keeping the faith Mine hasn't been terrible, it's just been real painful at the end.

It's ok, I'll get to say to her "you just wait till you have a kid! I hope he/she beats you up like you did me"

[CoffeeGirl]

the second you see her & hold her, all this pain,crap & hurt will completely disappear sweety!

[Rach]

Originally Posted by CoffeeGirl the second you see her & hold her, all this pain,crap & hurt will completely disappear sweety!

Oh I know it! I'm just suffering until then

[Kaymara]

Yes I was in pain. When I got up to go pee the many times I had to stand still because my whole pelvic region popped. I had to roll myself out of bed like a beached whale, my feet were swollen to high hell, I peed every 5 minutes practically. Braxton hicks, Ethan would ram his head along a nerve in my pelvic region, heartburn etc..And yes I loved being pregnant more then anything in this world.

But that being said..You also need to remember it did take me almost a decade to even get pregnant. So even the aches and pains were a blessing to me. Honestly some people love being pregnant, aches and all...And others do not like it. My bestfriend hated being pregnant each and everytime. I just love every bit of it and cannot wait to do it again

i was in bad pain both pregnancies and i loved being prgnant but i guess its the mind doesnt remember exactly how you felt cause if you did there wouldnt be so many babies! but i loved the feeling of a living person(s) in side of me. and the kicks i love my whole 2nd and half my thrid trimester so all in all i loved being pregnant

[Rach]

Originally Posted by mamaoftwins+1 i was in bad pain both pregnancies and i loved being prgnant but i guess its the mind doesnt remember exactly how you felt cause if you did there wouldnt be so many babies!

Maybe....

Right now, I just want to scream....Honestly, I just get sick of hearing how happy these pregnant woman are and here I am, fighting crying out in tears and wanting to strangle them. Yes, I am happy she is healthy, but I am talking about the crap we experience.

Kristi, I'm sure if I have troubles conceiving after this one or cannot concieve for some reason, I'll look back and think how I'd love to go through this pain just one more time for another baby, so I completely understand where your coming from.

Hell, like Amanda said, it probably will go away after I give birth.

Right now it's just so hard for me to focus on the positive...I'm really trying but the more intense these pains get & so constant, it's getting harder...

[Kaymara]

Every pregnancy is different. I asked Rod if I complained about being uncomfy and he said not once. Only after I went overdue did I say I was ready for him to come so I could meet him. He did say I would mention that things cracked or Ethan was pushing too hard sometimes but that I would laugh about it

You do forget alot. My labor was horrendous and I have forgotten the actual pain of it. I am just 1 of those people who loved even the aches and pains. I'm sorry But yes I did have aches and pains. I wasn't pain free. My feet were so swollen that even 10 minutes of walking ballooned them out. I lived in slippers for months. I wore the same 2 outfits cuz nothing else fit. etc etc

I know it is hard. But tryto just focus on getting things ready to help you stay busy and not focus on the pain. Also spend time with your man. Because this is the last time it will be just you two. Go out to dinner etc. Even if you are uncomfy. Once you go into labor everything is a blur. And once the baby is here everything changes. I had no idea how much things would change. Yes it was for the better but definatly a change none the less

[Rach]

Originally Posted by Kaymara I know it is hard. But tryto just focus on getting things ready to help you stay busy and not focus on the pain. Also spend time with your man. Because this is the last time it will be just you two. Go out to dinner etc. Even if you are uncomfy.

It's honestly too hard right at this point. The pains I'm having are not just uncomfortable ones. Even Phil can vouch I'm having troubles walking, sitting, or laying down. We had to leave lunch early today b/c it was just too unbearable sitting there.

That's the thing...I could deal w/ the swelling, infrequent pains and what not..but this constant crap is starting to wear on me emotionally since I've been dealing w/ the normal pregnancy symptoms.

Oh well.....I'm sure I'm annoying