
Originally Posted by
magentablues
Im sorry you have to go through this. I've been through too many break ups with DB, twice during afghan deployment, but we managed to get back together. During homeport, things fell apart and we broke up when deployed to Cambodia and eventually got back but it was still a blur and we tried to work it out but we just completely lost touch and didnt hear from each other anymore. We broke up for 6 months, not talking much. I was always the one who randomly sends him fb messages once a month but sometimes he would ignore it or would reply but nothing just one or two lines. We both knew we still love each other and still want to be together. and now we are back together again. As insane as it may sound but our love right now is stronger. we are both happy.
Sometimes i think that we needed that 6 month break to evaluate our relationship. He never left my mind and heart that 6 months. I always know he would come back to me.
Give it time with your xbf. He will come around. Be there as a friend for him and continue to support him. I hope all goes well with you.
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