Doesn't know his own strength

[Chirp]

So last night DB was playing with my cat and I guess the kitty bit him so he grabbed him (the kitty) by the head or something, and then when he pulled away kitty didn't move. I was freaking out, I started crying because I thought he killed my cat. He didn't. Kitty was fine, but he really doesn't know his own strength.

He also grew up with three brothers so this really isn't helping. He's careful with his little sister (13) and he's gotten use to being careful with me... but it's not the first time something like this has happened with my cat.

[Amber]

My husband is extremely strong as well, but he knows better than to harm an animal. That is quite strange, and frightening.

[OliveJuice]

OMG! I don't know how to feel about this so I'm just going to give you a and say that I'm glad that the kitty wasn't hurt!

[NikkNakk]

wow....

[Heather LB.]

Originally Posted by Amber My husband is extremely strong as well, but he knows better than to harm an animal. That is quite strange, and frightening.

[drobisbaby08]

Have you tried talking to him about how he plays with your cat? I'm sorry!!!

[Saigon]

Perhaps he should speak to a professional about his anger. If he is harming an animal for being...an animal...maybe he has some unresolved anger management issues.

[HeatherBear]

I don't really know how to respond to this either...But you really should talk to him about that. I would be PISSED if J did that to any of my pets.

I really don't think growing up with guys has anything to do with it..I grew up with guys, and have never done that to an animal.

I'm sorry about your cat, but I really think you should talk to him.

[HeatherBear]

Originally Posted by Saigon Perhaps he should speak to a professional about his anger. If he is harming an animal for being...an animal...maybe he has some unresolved anger management issues.

I think he was playing with the cat, not angry with it..
Either way, I feel sorry for your poor cat.

[Shantell12]