Ok..he's home..and being weird??

[Kellie ~]

Ok well my df got home on Fri. And he had four days off we spent all of them together, And I didn't see him at all yesterday, he said he was too tired for me to come over, ok understandable. So today I was texting him and he said he was sick and he doesn't want to come over cause he doesn't want to get me sick. I told him I wanted to come anyway, and he said I was being difficult. So the question is should I just go over there anyway?? Is this related to him being back? Is it me? I don't get it, and I'm frustrated!
UPDATE: He texted me and said he loves me Didn't say he wanted me to come over, didn't say anything about it..but it made me feel better that he said he loved me

[bethanybabe]

I would guess that it is him being back. Give him some space to readjust. It took John a while to be comfortable being home again. Be patient and dont nag. Hang in there it will get better!

[Germanchick]

He asked you not to come over to his house so I would respect that. He JUST got back. Give him and yourself time to get used to being together again.

[*MarineBug*]

No I definitely don't think you should just go over there. Especially since he already stated you were being difficult. He probably just needs some time, is feeling overwhelmed by everything. Maybe he just needs a few days to sleep, hang out alone, relax

[OliveJuice]

Don't go over there sweetie. I hate giving space, believe me! But it sounds like if you go over there you might piss him off rather than make him feel better.

[Kellie ~]

thanks for the advice everyone! I just texted him, and said I'll stop being difficult and bugging him, and that i love him and won't come over unless he asks me to and if he doesn't want me to i understand and that i love him

[moonlit-eyes]

I'd give him his space, too. As much as he wants to be with you, being here is SO different from being there, and if you two have been joined at the hip, he hasn't had time to adjust on his own. If you give him a few days on his own, it'll help him and the two of you adjust to stateside life.

I'm sorry you're going through this. I'd be happy to take you out if you want me to. You know my number.

ETA: Oops, I started responding right as you responded and didn't see it. Good call.

[blinkybear]

He may honestly be sick so don't blow this out of proportion. Try and relax your grip a bit...everything will be okay.

[OliveJuice]

Originally Posted by Kellie ~ thanks for the advice everyone! I just texted him, and said I'll stop being difficult and bugging him, and that i love him and won't come over unless he asks me to and if he doesn't want me to i understand and that i love him

Good Call sweetie. Hopefully he will see that you are being genuine.