07-22-2009, 12:00 AM
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Excited but Scared....
Hi all!! Need some advice!
So DH is back in less than X days.... WOOHOO im super excited!!! however also super scared.. Im about 7 months prego... Pre-Deployment baby lol and Im kinda concered with the whole coming back and getting used to one another again... Im sure the first week will be loads of fun but after that is what Im worried about.... Im not a needy person at all and dont need lots of attentsion but I do get those awful prego mood swings  and Im just worried how that may affect him... Im not sure how to handle arguements if they may arise or what I should try to avoid... Im just kinda lost I guess... any words of advice/encourgement????Edited days out due to OPSEC ~sunshyne Last edited by Sunshyne; 07-22-2009 at 09:02 AM. |
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07-22-2009, 12:02 AM
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Congrats on his return.
Perhaps you should edit the amount of days though. OPSEC and all. Just put he'll be back SOOOO SOOOOON! 
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07-22-2009, 12:05 AM
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Missing you more each day...
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I don't know what to say cause I have the same fears...Im not prego lol but the whole getting use to each other again and dealing with ds....Im sure it all just takes time....take it slow and try not to make up for lost time all at once....
 
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07-22-2009, 12:14 AM
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My best advice is to just talk it out. When he is with you let him know. Its OK to have fears. I bet you anything he has them too. Adjustments can be interesting and exciting plus a million other emotions. Keep the comm lines open and all will be well
Oh and CONGRATS! 
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07-22-2009, 08:31 PM
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trying to be PATIENT while i wait for the time to be OVER!
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I have a feeling everything is going to work out fine! I think getting bk into a routine where you are comfortable with eachother after his return may be hard, but I think you guys are going to be so excited, that it wont even matter! I think after the first week, itll just gel together. Plus, your carrying a baby!
 He is just going to be thrilled to be home. So dont fret!
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