05-22-2008, 03:33 PM
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Coldness, anger and swearing?
Normal? Even for a guy who would have never raised his voice to me ever before? I mean we're talking about yelling at me for crying in front of him. He said he hates when I cry in front of him, it makes him feel "UGH." When does this all get better?!
How do you ladies survive their desire to be completely away from you? I mean he told me the other day that he just wants to be away from ME. What the heck does that mean? 
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05-22-2008, 03:36 PM
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awww i think every guy has his bad day.
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05-22-2008, 03:55 PM
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Living in a constant state of WTF!!!
 
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Sounds like he is having a PMS - Pissy Male Sysndrome - Day...or perhaps several days!
 I'm sorry he is being this way...hope it gets better!
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05-22-2008, 06:02 PM
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 i am sorry u are going through this yes it all seems pretty normal. imo you need to sit him down at a calm time and tell him firmly that he cannot scream at u and say those things if he expects the relationship to last. it is not fair to you no matter what he has been through. |
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05-23-2008, 03:45 PM
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im sorry honey he said that to you..........
you dont deserve it! Im afraid it does seem to be how our men cope with deployment............I know my Ryan would get very pissy with me and after i told him he had to knock that **** on the head or else, we sat down and he very honestly said ... the thought of us being apart breaks my heart, it is easier to leave you if im angry at you.......... its not nice, it make us feel ****ty but i get where he is coming from! Perhaps tell him you understand where he's coming from but explain its not fair what he's doing and he owes you more than that! I hope it gets better!! if you need me PM me xx |
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