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    Sad we have to give her back

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    dh's sister has asked for her old cat back. we adopted gigi from her almost a year ago because she was not able to care for her. well, as grateful as i am that SIL is getting back on her feet, i don't want to loose gigi! her & charlie are best friends now.
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    I am so sorry. Was it understood as a temporary situation when this all started???
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    What? Maybe I'm mean, but there are no take backs with pets! Unless that was the agreement to start with I guess. Poor kitties.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kristen View Post
    What? Maybe I'm mean, but there are no take backs with pets! Unless that was the agreement to start with I guess. Poor kitties.
    I totally agree. I don't think it is fair to the animals to do that. Honestly, I'd tell her no, you took Gigi when she couldn't care for her and what are you supposed to do if you give her back and a few months from now it happens again?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss B Hav'n View Post
    I am so sorry. Was it understood as a temporary situation when this all started???
    that's hard to say. we did tell SIL that if she was ready to care for her, we'd give her back. but in all honesty, i never expected SIL to want her back. i still have my doubts that she's REALLY ready to give gigi a good home. she tends to "move out", then end up back with dh's mom w/in a few months. i dont want to keep passing the poor kitty back & forth. IF she takes her, i hope it's for good, for gigi's sake.
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    Could you tell her they are BFF's now and they want to stay together..Maybe just send her that pic...
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    I would not give her back. She gave her to you, a cat has feelings too. You can't just keep switching her from home to home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarLooSHoo View Post
    I would not give her back. She gave her to you, a cat has feelings too. You can't just keep switching her from home to home.
    that would be so sad for the cats
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    I think that's mean too. I had a dog who I had to give to a friend about 2 years ago because we coudn't have her at the time. I would TOTALLY take her back right now, but there is no way I would ever ask her for her back. I feel like that would be totally mean to my friend and to the poor dog.
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