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    For all you new moms out there

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    How would you feel if a GOOD FRIEND (supposively) Calls you a FAT B*&CH...and then you reply "nice, do you not realize I had a baby 3 1/2 months ago? How old are we really?" her reply is "SO I know other people who have babies that aren't FAT"

    I mean I had Hunter 3 1/2 months ago and had him by csection so For the first month I was healing and couldnt get out and do stuff, im only 140lbs now..and have about 15lbs to go..I don't think she understand how hard it is to lose all that baby weight...it just upsets me that a friend would say something like this...

    Am I just over reacting when I get upset about this..or would you get upset/mad about this if someone who is suppose to be a friend said this to you?
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    A good friend wouldn't call you that even if you were fat.
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    You're not overreacting at all..totally uncalled for. People lose the weight at different rates. Some never lose all the weight. At least you can say 3 and a half months ago...doesn't work so well when you had your last kid 9 yrs ago, lol.
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    that is horrible! definitely not a friend i'd want to hang around.
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    First of all 140 is NOT fat!

    Second, she is not a good friend. Ditch her
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jill View Post
    First of all 140 is NOT fat!

    Second, she is not a good friend. Ditch her
    I agree!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jill View Post
    First of all 140 is NOT fat!

    Second, she is not a good friend. Ditch her
    and even a mediocre friend wouldn't say anything like that
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    that sounds crazy rude to me she's not a very good friend
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    not a good friend at all
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    My response? "You can fix fat but you can't fix ugly!!!"

    I'm sorry but a good friend wouldn't say something like that to you. That's ridiculous.

    I would be fuming.
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