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    i dont even know where to begin. HELP!!

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    I am very young and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years in January. I am happier than ever before. Kris is the greatest. And i love him with all of my heart. He left Jan 18 for England. He will be there untill this summer and will then be deployed to Iraq. Im scared. Its hard. I miss him so much . And i know theres nothing thats going to make this any easier. but if anyone on here has a husband, boyfriend ect. that has been to England i would love to hear about it. he has been there for a little over a month, and when he first got there he LOVED it. He had just got out of(hell as he called it)South Korea though. SO anything was better than that. But I havent got to talk to him in over 3 weeks. And i was just wondering if anyone knows what they do over there. Like what kinda tranning he might be going through. Or why hes not able to write or call? ANYTHING would be of help. Ive been going through this with him since he joined. Right there by his side supporting him. And sometimes i feel like im being fake when hes gone. Because i have to FAKE a smile and act like im not hurting inside. And then i just lock myslef in my room and break down. Is that normal? Or am i the only one who does that? I would just like to learn more about the places hes at and also not feel like im alone in this. Since im in highschool my friends dont understand.(Im in computer class right now) They dont know what its like to go without seeing their boyfriend for a day especially MONTHS. So i turn to websites where im not alone. I would appreciate anything anyone has to say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Future_Andrews View Post

    I am very young and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years in January. I am happier than ever before. Kris is the greatest. And i love him with all of my heart. He left Jan 18 for England. He will be there untill this summer and will then be deployed to Iraq. Im scared. Its hard. I miss him so much . And i know theres nothing thats going to make this any easier. but if anyone on here has a husband, boyfriend ect. that has been to England i would love to hear about it. he has been there for a little over a month, and when he first got there he LOVED it. He had just got out of(hell as he called it)South Korea though. SO anything was better than that. But I havent got to talk to him in over 3 weeks. And i was just wondering if anyone knows what they do over there. Like what kinda tranning he might be going through. Or why hes not able to write or call? ANYTHING would be of help. Ive been going through this with him since he joined. Right there by his side supporting him. And sometimes i feel like im being fake when hes gone. Because i have to FAKE a smile and act like im not hurting inside. And then i just lock myslef in my room and break down. Is that normal? Or am i the only one who does that? I would just like to learn more about the places hes at and also not feel like im alone in this. Since im in highschool my friends dont understand.(Im in computer class right now) They dont know what its like to go without seeing their boyfriend for a day especially MONTHS. So i turn to websites where im not alone. I would appreciate anything anyone has to say.
    yea i had to go through the same thing sweetie. Since you are still in high school I think people aren't taking your commitment as something that they think is love rather than lust. He's not writing and calling because he can't. He will have to settle in where ever they put him then they will tell him when he can make his first call or send his first letter. You are not alone. I've been by my marine side for 5 years now,,bootcamp,,MOS school etc etc and it does get a little better with time. But you are still young so dont just stay online and look up support groups. Go live your life and I know its hard but if you are really thinking about marriage make sure you do all of your partying and hanging with your friends now because you only get one childhood so dont waste it. You will be ok just stand by him and support him in all his endeavors and you guys will make it! hope that help sweetie!
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    I met my hubby to be when I was 15 and we were married during my senior year of high school... I had wedding, then prom!
    It is hard but doable. Lots of letters, emails, send him little care packages of things...
    You just have to try harder than most couples, but if you want it bad enough you can get through this.
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    I met my SO when I was 16 we were together through high school and then the day after he graduated high school he left for USMC boot camp and was gone for 6 months. He came home for a year and deployed to Iraq for a year, now he's been home for about 10 months and is going back on AD this summer. It is hard but I believe that it is totally worth it. He will call and write when he gets the chance, meanwhile, you can use this time to explore yourself, find things that you like to do and work on yourself so when he comes home you're totally ready! I hope this helps! Take care!
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    Hang on, he's in Lakenheath and you've not heard from him?
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    What base in England is he stationed at?
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    If he's in England, there should really be no reason he can't call/write...

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