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    whats it like?

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    im new to this whole military thing. Im getting ready to start my life with my man, who is an officer in the air force, and I am just curious what it will be like. I know we will have to move alot...he will be gone alot too...but is it as scary as it all sounds?? whats your experiences?? I love him so much and ill go through anything for him...
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    You take everything in stride, one day at a time. You may have days when its too much and you have to breakdown. There will be days when it seems to drag on for eternity (especially the first two to three weeks of deployment.) Best thing you can do is keep yourself busy.
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    It's not that scary.

    If you love each other you can do anything (I watched Moulin Rouge earlier, I'm feeling especially lovable)!

    Really though, it sounds a lot scarier than it actually is. It may be different but not impossible!
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    Its not that bad. You get used to the times where he is gone and the sometimes not talking that much and everything like that. You just have to take it one day at a time because that's all you can do. It won't be bad because you will be with the person you love and that makes everything worth it.
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    Like everything else in life, you have your good days and bad ones.

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