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    Getting nervous!

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    My friend came over today and we did some googling about Hawaii, and for some reason, now I am getting really nervous!

    We can't decide if we want to live in housing, or live out in town and commute far.

    We can't decide if we want to try to sell this house, or just try to rent.

    We can't decide if dh is going to re-enlist or not, so we're not sure how long we will be in Hawaii, which makes it hard to make decisions about everything.

    I wish I could have someone help me make these choices! Dh is so 'whatever' about everything right now.

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    I didn't know you guys were coming back!

    I'm sorry though, I'm sure it's frustrating trying to figure it all out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Steph* View Post
    I didn't know you guys were coming back!

    I'm sorry though, I'm sure it's frustrating trying to figure it all out.
    Yup, we're coming back! The dogs are cleared to arrive on Island the first week of April so that's when I'm expecting to come. Dh is coming before that.

    And I'm freaking out. Sometimes, I think it's a blessing that I already know what to expect, but at the same time, knowing things makes it harder too. That probably makes no sense.

    What part of the Island are you living on?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kristen View Post
    Yup, we're coming back! The dogs are cleared to arrive on Island the first week of April so that's when I'm expecting to come. Dh is coming before that.

    And I'm freaking out. Sometimes, I think it's a blessing that I already know what to expect, but at the same time, knowing things makes it harder too. That probably makes no sense.

    What part of the Island are you living on?
    That's awesome and you totally make sense. I'm sure it's hard since you're not sure if he's re-enlisting or not, that makes a huge difference knowing how long you'll be here.

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    Oh, I love it out there.

    I'm pretty sure I want to live in housing as close to base as possible, so we could maybe share a car, at least until he decides whether or not he's re-enlisting. No point in buying an island car if I'll only be there for 14 months.

    My biggest fear is this house here in VB. There is no way we can sell it with an agent, pay commissions, and break even. And I'm scared to death of selling it ourselves. But I'm also scared of having a mortgage payment here in VA while we're not collecting BAH in housing.

    Aghhh... Off to start another thread about property managers!

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