Living together - Military Moves and Relocation

Trescha · 01-04-2006, 08:27 PM

So df and i just got engaged and he went to a school on monday and we planned on getting married when he finished feb 22 and i was just wondering after i finish school in april would i be able to move with him even if i am not in his orders? BEcause he will get his orders before leaving a school and we wont be married yet...so i was just wondering how that works. I dont even finish school till april but we just want to know how that works? Like can they re do his orders after we get married or do you have to wait?? thanks yall

~~Donna~~ · 01-04-2006, 08:30 PM

if you arent on his orders, the navy wont pay to get you or your stuff there. once he has reported there is no changing the orders unless he goes overseas, then they can change those to accompanied. but unless you get married before he gets his orders, you guys have to foot the moving bill.

Trescha · 01-04-2006, 08:33 PM

omg! that sucks. But would i be able to live on base and all with him since we would be married?

~~Donna~~ · 01-04-2006, 08:40 PM

yes, once he gets you on his page 2 you can apply for base housing.

Sophie* · 01-04-2006, 08:47 PM

I live with my df for half of the week, but he lives off base - I dont know about living on base. Plus, he doesn't get any monitary benefits until we're married.

Jennygirl · 01-04-2006, 09:01 PM

You can live on base with him when you are married only if they have housing available for your df's rank...and you have to apply for it...

01-05-2006, 12:24 AM

Ok so you can't live with your sailor on base to you are married?

KevzQueen · 01-05-2006, 02:17 AM

right. girlfriends and boyfriends can't live on base with the person.

rosebud* · 01-05-2006, 03:39 AM

as far as getting some money back for you moving it can happen once you are married.... dh and I got married while he was on leave from A school now while they wouldn't give him any money for me to move any stuff up there, once I was up there he did get remburised for my ticket..

harrisonsdream · 01-05-2006, 05:19 AM

I can understand that and to elaborate on this topic, df and i will be getting married in december 2007 but he will be out of school in december 2006. i don't know how that's going to work out. we are hoping for VA and i know the waiting list for housing is really long so we will live off-base. we will be living off base (hopefully) so will that make things easier or not? can anyone help me....

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01-04-2006, 08:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
Trescha Loving my sailor! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: VA Posts: 3,675 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 67%	Living together So df and i just got engaged and he went to a school on monday and we planned on getting married when he finished feb 22 and i was just wondering after i finish school in april would i be able to move with him even if i am not in his orders? BEcause he will get his orders before leaving a school and we wont be married yet...so i was just wondering how that works. I dont even finish school till april but we just want to know how that works? Like can they re do his orders after we get married or do you have to wait?? thanks yall __________________

01-04-2006, 08:33 PM	#3 (permalink)
Trescha Loving my sailor! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: VA Posts: 3,675 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 67%	omg! that sucks. But would i be able to live on base and all with him since we would be married? __________________

01-05-2006, 03:39 AM	#9 (permalink)
rosebud* rosebud*<3 Brittany Jo && <3 thekels9 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: [wherever his heart is] Posts: 32,651 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 49% Longevity: 67%	as far as getting some money back for you moving it can happen once you are married.... dh and I got married while he was on leave from A school now while they wouldn't give him any money for me to move any stuff up there, once I was up there he did get remburised for my ticket.. __________________

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01-04-2006, 08:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
~~Donna~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: New Orleans Posts: 16,885 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 99%	if you arent on his orders, the navy wont pay to get you or your stuff there. once he has reported there is no changing the orders unless he goes overseas, then they can change those to accompanied. but unless you get married before he gets his orders, you guys have to foot the moving bill.

01-04-2006, 08:40 PM	#4 (permalink)
~~Donna~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: New Orleans Posts: 16,885 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 99%	yes, once he gets you on his page 2 you can apply for base housing.

01-04-2006, 08:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
Sophie* MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 14,225 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 68%	I live with my df for half of the week, but he lives off base - I dont know about living on base. Plus, he doesn't get any monitary benefits until we're married.

01-04-2006, 09:01 PM	#6 (permalink)
Jennygirl MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bremerton, WA Posts: 27,305 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 67%	You can live on base with him when you are married only if they have housing available for your df's rank...and you have to apply for it...

01-05-2006, 12:24 AM	#7 (permalink)
JrRose03 Guest Posts: n/a Activity: 0% Longevity: 0%	Ok so you can't live with your sailor on base to you are married?

01-05-2006, 02:17 AM	#8 (permalink)
KevzQueen I love a rainy night. Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Hanford, CA Posts: 8,106 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 67%	right. girlfriends and boyfriends can't live on base with the person.

01-05-2006, 05:19 AM	#10 (permalink)
harrisonsdream Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 52,170 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 67%	I can understand that and to elaborate on this topic, df and i will be getting married in december 2007 but he will be out of school in december 2006. i don't know how that's going to work out. we are hoping for VA and i know the waiting list for housing is really long so we will live off-base. we will be living off base (hopefully) so will that make things easier or not? can anyone help me.... forgive me for stealing the forum