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    Shock help should i or shouldnt i

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    If you have no children (or very small children), no job and no attachments, I would go! It really depends on the variables at play.
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    As amandar said it really depends on what you have going on at home. But at the same time he will only be gone for 5 months and you could be saving a little extra money for your actual big move that you will be doing.
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    I say don't go- save for the PCS and maybe a weekend get away after he finishes training.
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    tough call sweetie. i was planning on going with dh when he left for 5 months for tech school but they just decided to PCS us instead.

    I was going to though. If it means anything.

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    I always went with my exDH it was tough finacially but worth it
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    i would wait till pcsing.
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    I would wait til PCS, but that's just me
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    A couple of questions:

    What school will he be attending (some are more intensive - and, thus, less compatible with this plan - than others)?
    Do you have children?
    Are you currently working and, if so, is your household budget dependent on that income?
    Will you be able to afford a home for yourself in the area you will be moving to without any income from you if you are unable to find work right away (if your plan is to work while there) or if you dont' work at all while there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss B Hav'n View Post
    A couple of questions:

    What school will he be attending (some are more intensive - and, thus, less compatible with this plan - than others)?
    Do you have children?
    Are you currently working and, if so, is your household budget dependent on that income?
    Will you be able to afford a home for yourself in the area you will be moving to without any income from you if you are unable to find work right away (if your plan is to work while there) or if you dont' work at all while there?
    all i know is he will be at ft. gordon,and we dont have any children. I have seen some nice apartments in our price range in ga. but now I really believe I should stay home and save, because if i move I wont have alot saved for our pcs move, and I dont want to be finacially struggling. I love my dh very much and I plan to go visit him whenever he is able to see me but im just trying to do whats best for us.
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