Stressed to the MAX! - Military Moves and Relocation

Trescha · 05-09-2006, 05:23 PM

Ok, well i need to vent just a little because i am about to go nuts. Ok i am moving to VA real soon like the 31st of this month and so much is going on and dh is just getting to me right now. He is like do this and that and that and omg where is all this money suppose to come from my ASS? becuase i just finished school to be a medical assistant and where i did my externship they hired me for like a week and a half because then i will be moving and all so i dont have all this money and his money is what we need to pay the bills with when we get them for the first time. And then on top of all that i still have school loans witch i gotta pay 106.10 a month on that omg is a damn lot to me. And then i gotta get my wisdom teeth pulled within the next two weeks before i move. omg i am going to kill myself. i feel so overwelmed and i am taking it out on my dh and i dont mean to but damn to much going on and he doesnt see it. anyone help with some advice.

galxy8 · 05-10-2006, 07:11 AM

I'm sorry, Sweetie!! You should be able to defer your school loans for 6 months after graduation. Just call and let them know that you'd like to defer them. If you're PCS'ing, you should be able to get an advance from his paychecks to cover moving expenses. You do have to pay it back, but it'll help you out now. If you're doing a DITY (Do it yourself) move, they should pay you for that, also. As for your wisdom teeth, you could apply for a payment plan at the dentist office. Gosh, that's all the ideas I have, Sweetie!! Good luck. Try not to stress too much. (DH doesn't stress either, so I totally know how you feel.)

Michele · 05-10-2006, 07:18 AM

Hang in there! Sending money vibes your way

Gabrielle18 · 05-10-2006, 08:05 AM

I know excatly how you feel! I'm moving to be with my Df on the 31st and everything that can go wrong, is going wrong! I'm just trying to take it one day at a time. Sometimes if you write out everything that needs to be done, it helps organize it in you mind better. HTH

Trescha · 05-10-2006, 06:31 PM

Thanks yall so much things are going better today...but still stressed. but with life comes stress.

Well i wish everyone the best too. thanks again

05-09-2006, 05:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
Trescha Loving my sailor! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: VA Posts: 3,675 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 69%	Stressed to the MAX! Ok, well i need to vent just a little because i am about to go nuts. Ok i am moving to VA real soon like the 31st of this month and so much is going on and dh is just getting to me right now. He is like do this and that and that and omg where is all this money suppose to come from my ASS? becuase i just finished school to be a medical assistant and where i did my externship they hired me for like a week and a half because then i will be moving and all so i dont have all this money and his money is what we need to pay the bills with when we get them for the first time. And then on top of all that i still have school loans witch i gotta pay 106.10 a month on that omg is a damn lot to me. And then i gotta get my wisdom teeth pulled within the next two weeks before i move. omg i am going to kill myself. i feel so overwelmed and i am taking it out on my dh and i dont mean to but damn to much going on and he doesnt see it. anyone help with some advice. __________________

05-10-2006, 07:11 AM	#2 (permalink)
galxy8 So glad to be able to eat at Arby's again! LOL! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Oklahoma City, OK/Tinker AFB Posts: 1,771 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 69%	I'm sorry, Sweetie!! You should be able to defer your school loans for 6 months after graduation. Just call and let them know that you'd like to defer them. If you're PCS'ing, you should be able to get an advance from his paychecks to cover moving expenses. You do have to pay it back, but it'll help you out now. If you're doing a DITY (Do it yourself) move, they should pay you for that, also. As for your wisdom teeth, you could apply for a payment plan at the dentist office. Gosh, that's all the ideas I have, Sweetie!! Good luck. Try not to stress too much. (DH doesn't stress either, so I totally know how you feel.) __________________ Dracula Tour to Transylvania Tour Report (We won the "Best Overall" in the Costume Contest as the"Un-Dead Pirates.") View Our Dracula Tour Pics Here

05-10-2006, 08:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
Gabrielle18 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 233 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 64%	I know excatly how you feel! I'm moving to be with my Df on the 31st and everything that can go wrong, is going wrong! I'm just trying to take it one day at a time. Sometimes if you write out everything that needs to be done, it helps organize it in you mind better. HTH __________________ Gabrielle http://www.myspace.com/gabrielle918

05-10-2006, 06:31 PM	#5 (permalink)
Trescha Loving my sailor! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: VA Posts: 3,675 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 69%	Thanks yall so much things are going better today...but still stressed. but with life comes stress. Well i wish everyone the best too. thanks again __________________

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05-10-2006, 07:18 AM	#3 (permalink)
Michele Hard working mommy and wife! Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,101 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 69%	Hang in there! Sending money vibes your way