UPSET...PERi0D!

[.x.MiSS.LADi.x.]

like taking our soldiers far away w/ barely any contact isn't enough...why do they have to take all communication away from them for the first 3wks? its not right! like it isn't enough they can only write us & talk every so often?! im sorry i just had to say that about the whole boot camp thing...my husband just told me on the phone [just got there] & i had'a let it out!

[GlitterCrotch]

Yeah, it sucks, but without that bootcamp wouldn't be as effective. We want them trained as well as possible because it will save lives, and unfortunately that's a part of it.

[.x.MiSS.LADi.x.]

i guess...im not so upset bc of ME not being able to speak w/ him...its just he was so torn up about leaving our son thats 2yrs old...& i wanna be able to tell him we're okay & he's fine...he thinks noel is gonna forget him while he's gone...i feel so bad!

[GlitterCrotch]

Went through the same thing with BCT, AIT, and now our first deployment where he thinks our almost 2 yr old son won't remember him when he comes home. Our son remembered him at BCT Grad, AIT homecoming, and I'm sure he will not forget him now. Just keep reassuring your honey that your son WILL remember him, will be a little mad at graduation, but should be over it in a day or so.

[*MarineBug*]

eehhhh I think its for a good purpose...to keep them focused and what not. It sucks ya but things could be worse

[Caimbrie]

Boot Camp is designed to train them, break them and mold them. It's part of what will make him a good soldier. They are already too easy on them now as it is. If they let them call you whenever they want, it would defeat the purpose.

Just remember, him and every other person there are going through the same thing. ALL of them don't get calls and the like. AND.. there are people going throguh what you are, and many more going through a lot worse Boot Camp is just the beginning, deployments are a lot more challenging and difficult.

[*MarineBug*]

Originally Posted by Caimbrie Boot Camp is designed to train them, break them and mold them. It's part of what will make him a good soldier. They are already too easy on them now as it is. If they let them call you whenever they want, it would defeat the purpose. Just remember, him and every other person there are going through the same thing. ALL of them don't get calls and the like. AND.. there are people going throguh what you are, and many more going through a lot worse Boot Camp is just the beginning, deployments are a lot more challenging and difficult.

[.x.MiSS.LADi.x.]

i know it has to be that way for the sake of there training...im just upset about my husband being so sad thinking our son will forget him, thats all! i know it only gets worse...i jsut dont want him to hurt [lol] ima big baby....it hurts me more to see him hurt then actualy being hurt...kwim?

[Caimbrie]

Originally Posted by MissAsadi i know it has to be that way for the sake of there training...im just upset about my husband being so sad thinking our son will forget him, thats all! i know it only gets worse...i jsut dont want him to hurt [lol] ima big baby....it hurts me more to see him hurt then actualy being hurt...kwim?

Don't stress over it He is supposed to be sad and miss you and your son. Just about everyone cries in bootcamp.

[.x.MiSS.LADi.x.]

hahaha awwww...wish i could see it! only tyme i saw my husband cry was...the night he proposed [after being broke up for a few hours] && the night b4 he left...