Boot camp... HELP - Military Benefits

Kara Davis · 02-14-2007, 06:15 PM

I need some major help... I'm a freshman in college and my fiance left for boot camp on January 23, he is at Fort Jackson,SC.. A girl here in my dorm is in the Army National Guard as well and she told me somethings that happened at her boot camp and it has me very worked up.. She said that whenever they go out for their 7 day trip to Victory Field that the guys and girls have sex like crazy... I need to know if this really happens or if she was just being a B*tch... I don't think that my fiance will do anything but I'm not one to have a lot of trust in other girls around him... so please if you know help me....

Thank you
Kara Davis

wolfspawprint · 02-14-2007, 06:36 PM

If your fiancee is the good guy you believe him to be (otherwise you wouldn't be engaged to him!), then I think things are going to be just fine and I seriously doubt that he will cheat. I have a feeling she is more talking about the single guys/girls, not your snagged one, and from what you have said, she might be kind of a ***** too.

Kelsey · 02-14-2007, 06:39 PM

my DH was at Ft. Jackson and he never said anything about that. There was a lot of that going on at AIT, but that was just the single people.

USNFFG52 · 02-14-2007, 06:42 PM

Well as far as that goes, when are they going to have time unless they are not using their energy for the mission at hand. They will not do that because they can get into trouble, fraternization (spelling?). She is trying to get under your skin. I am speaking from experience being on that side of things and I am sure others here have been in the same position I was in. I am prior active Navy and that never happened. We were always too busy to do that and all the snoring was proof, lol. If he just left for boot camp, expect it to be a week or so before you get any letters/phone calls etc. I would suggest to write him as soon as you get his address or even before then, that way he knows you support him. I did that with my wife when she went through Navy basic training. She would get a letter every time they had mail call. Everything will be ok, don't let that person get to you and if you ever have any questions, problems, etc, everyone here is great about helping everyone with anything.

Ashnbri · 03-28-2007, 02:30 PM

Yeah I think she was just being a jerk....They do not have hardly any down time and I dont imagine them being able to be alone with any women..the women are even in different baracks.

iLuvKev · 03-28-2007, 02:32 PM

it could be possible, but unlikely. If you trust him don't worry about it. Let those who risk it get in trouble or an STD lol.

inlovewithjon · 03-28-2007, 02:35 PM

Ah, you got me scared too now...my man is at Ft. Jackson. I trust him and you gotta trust yours too! Everything will be ok!

missinghim · 03-28-2007, 02:36 PM

Eh, if he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat. Him being in the military has nothing to do with it. If you trust him everything will be fine

Kara · 03-28-2007, 02:36 PM

My fiance is in the Navy, and people weren't like that in basic training, but A school people were hooking up and stuff. Just gotta have faith and trust in him, if you haven't talked about your feelings about cheating/adultery, now would be the time! Welcome sweety! PM me if you ever need to chat!

missinghim · 03-28-2007, 02:36 PM

Also, I meant to add, I'm here in Cola. and I have never heard of 'sex orgy's' from Ft. Jackson

02-14-2007, 06:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
Kara Davis Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: He is at Fort Jackson, SC Posts: 7 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 47%	Boot camp... HELP I need some major help... I'm a freshman in college and my fiance left for boot camp on January 23, he is at Fort Jackson,SC.. A girl here in my dorm is in the Army National Guard as well and she told me somethings that happened at her boot camp and it has me very worked up.. She said that whenever they go out for their 7 day trip to Victory Field that the guys and girls have sex like crazy... I need to know if this really happens or if she was just being a B*tch... I don't think that my fiance will do anything but I'm not one to have a lot of trust in other girls around him... so please if you know help me.... Thank you Kara Davis

02-14-2007, 06:36 PM	#2 (permalink)
wolfspawprint Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 2,633 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 67%	If your fiancee is the good guy you believe him to be (otherwise you wouldn't be engaged to him!), then I think things are going to be just fine and I seriously doubt that he will cheat. I have a feeling she is more talking about the single guys/girls, not your snagged one, and from what you have said, she might be kind of a ***** too. __________________

02-14-2007, 06:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
Kelsey Happy little tree Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Manhattan, KS Posts: 7,856 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 52%	my DH was at Ft. Jackson and he never said anything about that. There was a lot of that going on at AIT, but that was just the single people. __________________ Keep up with all of our adventures with renovating a 1960s ranch house - check out MY BLOG!

03-28-2007, 02:30 PM	#5 (permalink)
Ashnbri I love my Boys! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: NS Mayport Posts: 5,165 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 65%	Yeah I think she was just being a jerk....They do not have hardly any down time and I dont imagine them being able to be alone with any women..the women are even in different baracks. __________________

03-28-2007, 02:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
iLuvKev Angelina, but call me Angie! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: where his heart is Posts: 2,682 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 12% Longevity: 58%	it could be possible, but unlikely. If you trust him don't worry about it. Let those who risk it get in trouble or an STD lol. __________________

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02-14-2007, 06:42 PM	#4 (permalink)
USNFFG52 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: USS Stennis, Bremerton, WA Posts: 1,683 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 54%	Well as far as that goes, when are they going to have time unless they are not using their energy for the mission at hand. They will not do that because they can get into trouble, fraternization (spelling?). She is trying to get under your skin. I am speaking from experience being on that side of things and I am sure others here have been in the same position I was in. I am prior active Navy and that never happened. We were always too busy to do that and all the snoring was proof, lol. If he just left for boot camp, expect it to be a week or so before you get any letters/phone calls etc. I would suggest to write him as soon as you get his address or even before then, that way he knows you support him. I did that with my wife when she went through Navy basic training. She would get a letter every time they had mail call. Everything will be ok, don't let that person get to you and if you ever have any questions, problems, etc, everyone here is great about helping everyone with anything.

03-28-2007, 02:35 PM	#7 (permalink)
inlovewithjon Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Fort Hood, Texas Posts: 782 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 48%	Ah, you got me scared too now...my man is at Ft. Jackson. I trust him and you gotta trust yours too! Everything will be ok! __________________

03-28-2007, 02:36 PM	#8 (permalink)
missinghim Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Columbia, SC Posts: 3,755 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 12% Longevity: 62%	Eh, if he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat. Him being in the military has nothing to do with it. If you trust him everything will be fine __________________

03-28-2007, 02:36 PM	#9 (permalink)
Kara Psych Student by Day.. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 13,111 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 65%	My fiance is in the Navy, and people weren't like that in basic training, but A school people were hooking up and stuff. Just gotta have faith and trust in him, if you haven't talked about your feelings about cheating/adultery, now would be the time! Welcome sweety! PM me if you ever need to chat! __________________ Thank you for my siggy Stacey! He's home from Iraq!

03-28-2007, 02:36 PM	#10 (permalink)
missinghim Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Columbia, SC Posts: 3,755 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 12% Longevity: 62%	Also, I meant to add, I'm here in Cola. and I have never heard of 'sex orgy's' from Ft. Jackson __________________