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    Happy Valentines day! Hope it was a good day!
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    Part 3

    I would say go forward with your plan. Talk to him if he's willing and able to do it. Stick to how you feel about him and the situation. Avoid blame or pointing the finger. Be honest about what you need and are willing to do and ask him to do the same.

    I wish you both the best. Whatever happens, I hope you stick around. I've enjoyed your posts and I'm still learning about this whole military lifestyle. It's nice to have someone around that has some insider knowledge and in the same stage of life.

    All the best,
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    Unlike you and your DB, we did not get to meet before he deployed. He was home for about a week and spent the time with his girls. The only chance we had to meet was the night I had to attend my mom's surprise 60th birthday party. I couldn't exactly skip that. He's 37, been divorced for about 2 years and has had several other committed relationships. He also had a long separation prior to finalizing his divorce due to deployments and injuries so I understand about that. we've built our relationship up long distance via, emails, yahoo chatting, webcamming and most lately oovoo. I pray that things continue to go well and that he comes home soon that we can hopefully move this relationship along to other levels. We both (he and I) want that. LOL.

    I'm sorry you're having a tough time right now. It sounds like you were both under the impression that you were in this. And it almost sounds to me like something spooked him all of a sudden. Whether it was something you did or said or something someone else did or said, only he knows. Right after DB arrived at his destination, he emailed me and was talking about being in the comms room listening to other people (guys) on the phones arguing with cheating girlfriends and spouses at home. It could have been something like that.

    Make that 3 parts, sorry!! has a lot to say.
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    Please note, I had to separate this into 2 posts as it was too long. LOL. Please see both parts. Thanks!! I really didn't want to delete any of it.


    I chose to send you a PM instead of adding on to the responses in your post. It almost seems like you're having to defend yourself in your responses to posters when you were simply looking for some support. People get really riled up about things sometimes. And it seems your SO being "technically" married is one of them.

    I don't know if you've noticed or not, but a lot of the girls on this site are really young. Sometimes I wonder if there's anyone else my age on here. We are the same age, I too have had my share of bad experiences with men and I abhor drama. Don't want it, don't need it. Peace in life is good. I also met my DB online last summer. We both live in Houston, but at the time we "met" he was in San Diego training for his current deployment.

    End part 1, please see next post for part 2
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