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    Oh my gosh 2 months??? That is soooo soon! Maybe once he gets back you can help him get the ball rolling and figure out what he wants to do how much longer does he have left in his contract? what are you going to school for?
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    ...haha why? and I did....I almost killed myselfff
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    Yay yay yay yay yay!!! I'm getting excited FOR you lol
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    He coming home soon?!? Yaaay!! I know you're excited!! And skype is like the best invention ever.
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    OMG!! Thanks for reminding me! I do to haha! But DB called today He got my
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    exactlyyy!!! i wan't ignoring you or anything lol
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    haha ohh i feel bad now! I could've friended you like a week ago lol
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    Woow woot! I remember your picture, I saw it in a forum but it didn't occur to me that were weren't friends
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    Oh my gosh that is exactly like my situation!!!!! All these future plans to worry about...and it gets complicated with trying to finish school, planning our life together, AHHH everything! But he comes home for R and R in we will be able to talk about future plans then. And it helps when you are actually WITH them to talk haha rather than just on the phone. And then he will be back for good to Campbell in June or July, no set date yet. But hopefully JUNE!!!!
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    Yes two years is a VERY long time to wait! Totally agree haha. I want to have an idea one way or another so we can kind of figure out the future. I guess DB finally decided to wait until he gets back to Campbell again, and then talks to somebody to figure out all his options...ahhhhh
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About Jessym

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Date of Birth
March 26, 1988 (34)
About Jessym
No, with no future plans of kids
Current Location/ Duty Station:
Me: NorCal Him: Oklahoma
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
We met in High School.
About Me:
I'm Jessy, 24, and I live in Chico, Ca. where I go to school studying Psychology. I love the outdoors, movies, music, hiking, camping, the beach, snowboarding, driving, pretty much anything you can think of. I'm also in a sorority and I love it.
About Us:
Our story is kind of long and a little complicated. We met in HS but never dated. Graduated in 06, started "talking" in March 2010. Started dating on July 9, 2010 when he was in the Marines. We had a pretty rocky relationship mostly due to my own insecurities. He deployed to Japan that September and then he came home at the beginning of April 2011. He proposed on Easter 2011 which was April 24. However, we started fighting and things between us became really rocky. I was scared and not ready for marriage like I thought. I had issues so I ran. We broke up and talked for a couple months after that but never got back together. We stopped talking almost completely shortly after that and I never saw him for two years. Then, I wanted to go visit him this summer. I had extra money, time, and I thought I had been over him for a while by then. I also had other friends in his town, too. Two years had gone by and I'd had other relationships and me and Rich were just friends. I never EVER imagined he still cared about me. Anyway, I go to visit him and sparks flew the second I saw him. I played it off but we really connected over that week. We talked about everything and he told me he never stopped loving me. He only pushed me away because he knew I needed to focus on myself and my education which is true. If I'd known he still loved me, I never would have let go. So, he gave the chance to grow up, heal, and get over my problems and now we're perfect for each other. I still love him with all my heart and he does too for me. We started dating again June 24, 2013 and we couldn't be happier.
Interests & Hobbies:
i'm into the outdoors. I'm in love with snowboarding and i like to rock climb and go to the beach. i'm a major movie buff.
pretty much everything. Some favorites are Jason Aldean, Carrie Underwood, Air Supply, and The Offspring.
How I Met Your Mother and The Big Bang Theory
billy madison and Breakfast at Tiffany's.
Harry Potter


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