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    Hi...pretty much the same for me. Writing to him everyday is really helpful, but I'm still finding myself having major sad parts of each day. For the most part I try to hide it and keep a brave face because I know that nobody in my life really gets it and I'm not interested in the judgement that I'm afraid would come along with showing people how I really feel. I'm just counting down the days until he's home. Have you been getting any letters or communication of any kind? I've gotten 3 letters and, just today, I got a little note that started with "I only have 3 minutes to write this but I really just wanted to say hi." I haven't gotten a phone call yet and I just wish he could call so I could hear his voice.
    I'm holding it together but I am also struggling on the inside. It does make me feel better to know that you're feeling similarly because it lets me know I'm. to weird or being dramatic....although I do wish you more happy days ahead. Hang in there...I'm here if you ever need anything.
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    Just checking in, seeing how you're holding up. Hope you're doing well!
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    That's hilarious! I hope you have a good day!
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    I can ship you some food.
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    Have a great Thanksgiving!!!
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    My boyfriend left on veterans day too. This is his second time but our first together. How are you holding up? Have you been able to talk to him alot?
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    Meet a Navy guy, we went on 4 dates. We really hit it off well. However, he told me that he was getting deployed in 3 weeks for 4 months. We did not get a chance to discuss what would happen when he return because of his busy schedule prior to leaving. Should I continue to date or wait on him? I will not want to get involved with anyone else and find out that he want to continue where we left off. What should I do?
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    Hey. I'm holding up okay. Like I said, being at work (I'm here now) has been keeping me distracted enough that I'm not falling apart all day long. I took the day off on Monday, as it was the day he was leaving, but being back today and yesterday has been good...and plenty busy, catching up on all I missed on Monday! After work, I've been making sure I have plans every single day. I live by myself, so if I were to just go home I would most likely be wallowing and crying, which wouldn't be good at all!
    It is VERY comforting to know that the hardest part is behind me. And I'm just counting down the days until he comes home for the holiday "exodus" in December. That being said, I'm not looking forward to going through the goodbye process all over again when he goes back (right before both of our birthdays, none the less). It'll be nice when he's home, though, because I'll be off from work the whole time he's home. I work in a school, so it'll be the holiday break then!!
    Thank you, thank you, thank you for your support. I really do appreciate it and would like to extend the same support to you. I am here for you any and all times you may need someone to lean on. It is such a comfort to know that there are people out there, who are accessible, and who know exactly what I'm going through. So really and truly, thank you!
  9. View Conversation are you holding up? I just saw your reply from the thread you posted last week. Sorry I was distracted soaking up every last minute I had with my DB before he left. He shipped out yesterday and my emotions have been all over the place. The easiest time has been at work when I'm completely distracted, taking care of others, unable to focus on anything "me" related.
    How are you doing? Hope you're hanging in there...
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    Im an English major with a bus minor and a certification in Event Planning. I want to plan weddings eventuallu
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November 14th, 2012 a very special man walked into my life-- My best friend, love of my life, and other half. The first night I met him he swept me off my feet, literally. Cradled me into his arms and carried me straight into the ocean. Since then I've been hooked. Sharing him with the military has been the most difficult struggle of my life, and of course ironically enough my first ever serious relationship has also been the hardest. Currently my boyfriend is across the world for the next 8 months, but I'm counting down the days till my best friend comes home.
Country is what I mainly stick to, but I speak the truth when I say there isn't one genera of music I don't like at least one song from.
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