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    I just read your thread you posted in the Newbies section, but the thread was closed, so I figured I'd contact you here.
    You're not alone at all! I know it is really hard when your friends and/or family don't understand. My friend actually said to me the other day, "well, Kerry, you signed up for this so I don't really know what you want from me. You knew what you were getting yourself into." I nearly jumped through the phone in response! Yes, I signed up for this, knowing it would be difficulty and HOPING that I'd at least have some support from those people around me who have alwasy said they'd have my back. So much for that. But, no, I can't say I knew what I was getting myself into. I don't think you can ever really know until you've actually lived it...
    So, yea, sorry about that little rant. Just know that you're not alone.
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    It is hard not being on base and having the whole support group right there... The only wife I've made friends with so far just moved I miss her a whole lot. Especially since DB is TDY now and deploys right after... I hope everything is going good for you
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    I just got here in April of this year, so I'm still figuring out on the fun stuff to do. There are lots of hiking trails to do and beaches are always fun. The water here is gorgeous. There is the USS Arizona memorial at Pearl Harbor. If either of you like history, that's a great place to go. I'm exhausted right now but I'll get make to you with more ideas. When is homecoming? What does your DB do? I'm Katie btw!
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    Yay newbies unite! Yeah I read the newbie forum stuff, but I think it'll take a little time. A lot of the stuff on here seems to have so much a backstory, it's kind of intimidating. I definitely think its good for girls like us. It's nice to meet you, Cale. My name is Capri
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May 26, 1995 (27)
About cales_downs1117
Real Name:
Marine Corps
Not yet, but hopefully some day
Current Location/ Duty Station:
Me: Ohio Him: based in K-Bay deployed in Japan (deployment #2)
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
we were just pen pals on and off after he got back from afghan and we ended up realizing we were meant to be :) it's a much longer, confusing story, but I won't even go into it haha
About Me:
I'm Caley, but I go by Cale. I'm 18 and live in Ohio.
About Us:
My boyfriend is in the U.S. Marines. He is a Lcpl and is an assultman in infantry unit. He's based on K-Bay in Kailua, HI on Oahu. We haven't been together long, and we met through a friend. It was kind of a wonderful accident, us falling in love. But we are crazy about each other. we have so much in common and we really get each other and bring out the best in each other. We are inseparable best friends! well... yeah, there's that whole deployment and distance thing. see? sometimes I forget he's so far away, that's how close we are:) anyways, he is currently in Japan on his second deployment (first was Afghanistan 2011-12) This is my first deployment, but it isn't so bad because we're separated when he's in k-bay anyways. I could go on and on about us but that's enough for now:)
Dream Sheet:
I just want to be with him. I don't care where the military takes us, as long as we go together, as a team!
I really love documentaries... I'm a history buff!!!
Mitch Albom, S.E. Hinton


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