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    You must be pretty close to me then! I work in MA and live in northern CT
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    I know! Its so hard! But i promise that you will get into a routine and it wont be as hard! He may get to call to give you his address im for sure not an expert in the way things run in the military. But DB just wrote me first and thats how i got his address. I hope you hear from him soon!
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    yes! I've lived in CT all my life are you new to the state?
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    I forgot a few things in my comment so here. ha So first off, welcome to the site. You will find tons of support and everything you will ever want to know about the military an a lot of our personal lives too! But anyways I can tell you about my experience when my BF went to basic training. My BF went to army basic training this past sept. Anyways, I heard from DB the first day when he was at processing and then nothing. I finally got a letter two weeks in. Then i got one letter a week until the last three weeks where i got a five minute phone call on Sundays. THis was all really hard for me too because me and DB saw each other every day... Well i found this site. I also pin military stuff on Pinterest. I follow a bunch of military SO's on Twitter and i have a military girlfriend Tumblr.

    But my best advice for you while he is there is to write A LOT of letters. Your SO will LOVE getting your letters. My DB said its what he looked forward to the most and what kept him pushing through. I actaully wrote DB a letter every single night about what i had done that day and anything i wanted to tell him. That not only helped him from reading about my days but also it helped me cope too. Im not sure how but it did. Next keep yourself really busy. Find stuff that you love to do. Surround yourself with people who will only make you stronger. Not every girl can be with a military man but you can do it. Kepp your head up and if you ever need ANYTHING PLEASE let me know!!
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    I just wanted to drop by and say welcome to the site. I read your thread and completely understand what you're going through. We all do. If you ever want to talk about anything, I'm here. I may not always have the answers, or say the right thing, but I'm a great listener. I know that you can make it through this. Just remember to tell yourself that.
  6. Thank you so much for your message, it brought me to tears! I know that the time will go by fast, but I keep checking my phone. When he got there, he said he would be able to call me in the next few days and let me know where to send letters and boot camp graduation info.
    It means a lot for you to reach out. I have a family who is no very good with emotions, and never have been comfortable talking to them. They usually say things like "you'll be fine, just suck it up". This does not help!

    I am currently at a friends house because I am having a hard time being alone. Luckily, within the next few months I am going to be getting really busy which will help the time go by faster. Thank you again!
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    Hi!...I just read your post in the Newbie section and I just wanted to write you a little more of a personal note. I just want you to really know that you are not alone in all of this...My DH left Dec 12th for Navy basic and learning to continue on in "our life" has been the hardest thing I have ever done. It has been 22 days since he has left and I have only spoken him to him for less than a minute on the 12th when he got there and then one letter last week that he wrote on Christmas.
    I just want you to know that it may get worse before it gets better, at least it did for me, and you will still have HORRIBLE days that come out of no where and smack you down. However, you do reach your stride and if nothing else, sometimes auto-pilot just kicks in. Just write him everyday, I am not kidding, every night write to him about your day. This is just as much for you as it is for him. You both need to feel contected to each other and this is all we have at this point.
    I am in luck, though, my mother has been through all of this and is a constant support to me when I hit my walls. Find someone in your life who can do this for you, whether that be here or elsewhere. Stay busy, focus on the good things that are coming, but when the saddness comes give yourself a timed limit to wallow instead of burying it..this will not help you.
    Please, feel free to message me if you need anything and all the ladies here are an amazing source of support, use them!
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