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    How are you doing? I hope everything is going good! Were friends on fb but never talk haha we should change that!
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  3. I know! Isn't it the worst?!? and nice to meet you Victoria, I'm Moria! (said like Mariah, fy)
  4. I know I love this site too-it's so nice to feel surrounded by people that really understand! My civilian friends are always really sweet and supportive, but none of them truly understand or can relate, and that's fine, so sites like this help so much. A lot of people tend to think that a military relationship is no different than a long distance relationship and that is definitely not true-I'm sure you've been in the situation where a random girl in your presence will be complaining about how much she misses her bf after merely a couple days and you're just like "seriously? try 8 months." I HATE that. and yes, I'm always here to talk!
  5. I remember going through little phases like that-where you're finally granted the capability to have contact all the time and you just don't have all that much to talk about because you've covered pretty much everything. A few things to think about would be like internet games-Jon and I play scrabble and stuff like that together. It's silly, but it's fun and as close to a "date" as you can get. As far as making connections where you both are, that's hard for everyone, but at least you'll always have each other. You'll go in out of those phases regularly. Sometimes you'll both be so stressed that you don't really want to talk, other times you'll both want to talk aaaaaall day about eeeeeverything, and other days, one person will want to talk and the other won't, and that will happen. I learned that you can't take any offense when your s/o doesn't really want to talk because our guys lead very stressful lives; the military isn't easy, so you have to respect that it's not you that's making them not very talkative... they need their time as much as we need our time.
  6. Oh wow, yes he's in the army-after reading your response, Air Force was in my head and I accidentally wrote that, haha. I know it's not easy that your hunny is gone, but it does get easier... but it's still never easy. At least that's what I've experienced. I have really bad days and really good days, and I'm sure you do too.
  7. I think it's good that you knew from the start; I feel like that would make it easier. About a month into dating, Jon told me about his dream to join the Air Force, so he took me to his recruiters office because he wanted me to know what I was getting myself into. I honestly had no clue at the time; I didn't have the slightest idea what I was supposed to think or do. It turned out being one of the best things that happened in our relationship because the distance made us learn so much about us and we grew stronger and closer. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that he pops the question! That's SO exciting.
  8. Yeah we definitely considered the expense factor, but it really would only have been about 2,000 more for me to transfer there because I would have gone to the community college that my friends goes to-they have an amazing program there that I wish I could be in. We've been together for four years and I'm visiting him for the third time in 19 days. I'm so excited! How about you-same questions?
  9. That's awesome! I go to UW-Stout! Actually, Jon and I decided together that it's not the best idea for me to go to school in Hawaii at any time. I really really want to, and he would absolutely love for me too, but he's on every volunteer deployment list on his base, so it's unpredictable when and if he could deploy to Afghanistan. Although I have friends in Hawaii and I would have plenty of support, we decided it best that I stay in WI so I won't be alone. If he re-enlists, then I will be done with 2 years of college, and I will then most definitely go with him to wherever his next duty station is. We also thought that me going to Hawaii for school at this point would make us rush marriage to afford living expenses, and we don't want that to happen. We want to make sure we let things happen the right way, for us.
  10. BS in Sociology with an Emphasis in Criminal Justice
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About LittlePanda
Air Force
Not yet, but hopefully some day
Current Location/ Duty Station:
Me~Wisconsin Him~Florida
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
We use to work at the local grocery store together where we were friends for the longest time. One day out of the blue I asked him to go to a family party for my uncle who recently made Chief in the Navy. He said YES!! We chatted the whole way there and upon arriving he said, "So if people ask, Are we bf/gf?" Surprised, shocked, and relived I said, "YES." And let's just say the rest is history!!! I <3 that man!!
About Us:
My DB and I have been together for a little over a year. He joined the Air Force after 8 months of us going out. I knew he was going to join before we started dating and he knew I was staying in WI to finish my college career.
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As long as we're together it doesn't matter to me!!
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