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    that's cool, I just internet back myself (I just moved). yes, I got the ticker figured out, thanks though!
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    Yeah, my fam's from Nigeria - I was born in the U.S. (Maryland, to be exact). How's life been treating you?
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    And how did you get the sparkly "united states navy" thingy on your page too?
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    Hey! I've made it to 30 posts. So how do I do the countdown? Thanks again!
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    Its so nice to have others to talk to about this. I haven't had anyone to talk to about any of this... its nice I feel like im trying and trying and not getting anywhere. He always assures me though that I make him want to live. He loves me and he keeps going for me.. thats how I know how strong he is. He doesnt want to let me down and thats partly why he wont say certain things. I just reassure him daily I love him and I'm not going anywhere. I'm not quite sure what your fiance will go through exactly.. They all go through different things. There is SO much he will not tell you and partly because he cant but also because its a lot to take for us wives back home. They are trained to say less to us and to just keep it in. Its not healthy by any means but its the military for ya.. I am keeping my head up high, although it isn't always easy and sometimes i want to give up... but I know the man I fell in love with is still there inside of him and thats why i wont give up.
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    hey! Thanks for writing me. He was a doc for infantry marines. He has seen and done things that I can't even imagine... The stories he tells me make me cry just thinking about the pain he has inside. He has seen some of his best friends get shot, he has had to hold them and tell them they will be ok when he knows full well they werent. Anyone that has gone through all of that stuff wouldnt come out normal.. I hate he feels ashamed.. He told me that he thinks he would be better off dead because of what he has done.. he says it never stops in his head.. its like a constant replay. I feel useless... I love this man more than anything. Its so hard to see it in his eyes, that he hates life. I know everyone is writing on my thread about how he needs to see certain drs and stuff.. i just dont know how much that will help. If you ever need a friend to talk to I am here.. ive been through deployments with my husband and now the afterlife of military.
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    Yeah, he's stationed out in Japan -nice profile pic, you guys make a cute couple! Where are you in the UK?
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    Found you girl. I dont have a pic because Im not on this much but check out my navy4moms page. Just search BridgettePaulette.
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    You're welcome!
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    yeah :]
    im glad you guys worked it out. it is really tough, and you have to be really strong.
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About UkGirlToUsSailor

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Date of Birth
February 1
About UkGirlToUsSailor
Not yet, but hopefully some day
Current Location/ Duty Station:
Me United Kingdom.. Him NC.. Soon to be Chicago
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
I met my Military guy in the UK.. We seen each other occasionally on weekends then started spending a lot more time with each other.. we eventually fell in love and it was the BEST thing that has happened to me.. :)I love You Boo!
About Me:
Im 21 Years old.. Proud of my Navy Guy!

We have been together for 2 Years in June, and despite the distance the best 2 years of my life!

I love speaking to other people in the same situation as me.. as i find it a lot easier to deal with!
About Us:
It is fun, loving, romantic..
too many cute words to say.. Just like any persons relationship thats in love right? Only ours is special.. because my guy is in the Military and i couldn't be more proud of him!
Interests & Hobbies:
Reading, watching movies..
Chilling with my 2 nieces..
Talking to my man every opportunity i get!
Dream Sheet:
I hope to be living in the USA with my man in the next 2 years..



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