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    oh my god
    I thought I was the only one who says that,
    "is this the hill on which I choose to die?"
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    Thank you so much for your response. I think I'm going to ask my therapist this week about the kind of exercises you were doing.. maybe seeing the route my brain is taking me will help me figure out how to stop those thoughts. I've started working out more, too, and it has helped. If anything, it's a way to release some frustration and negative energy.

    My friends have been pretty amazing, and I'm so thankful for them. It's still hard though, when all I want to do is see him, but I can't.

    I know I'll never get used to the feeling of missing him. I just need to work toward squashing those negative thoughts because I know they're a manifestation of my anxiety and not reality.

    Thank you again, truly. Hopefully we can talk again sometime.
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    I never got any request from anyone. Sorry I haven't been on.
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    Hey, just wanted to ask if I could add you as a friend. You seem very insightful and super nice. Didnt just want to send a request.
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    Hey! How have you been?
    I still haven't quite committed to this forum.
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    and For those of us who don't have poker faces and wear our hearts on our sleeves!
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    I tried on one from his horror collection. It was in black on the runway, but obvi they had it in white. I cant remember the name. It was a ery plain, simple strapless that went down to below my hips and then HUGE, HUGE bottle that was ruffled. I cant find pics online though and I am not allowed to put the pic I snagged of it online.
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    Hey lady bug! (:
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    HI! I miss you! (And the other Hood ladies!) How are you? I love your new siggy!
  10. I think me and victoria are gonna go to a chinese place for lunch tomorrow around noonish, are you available?
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About Tojai

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About Tojai
No, with no future plans of kids
Current Location/ Duty Station:
St. Pete FL
How I Met My Military Significant Other:
I was teaching English in Korea and he was stationed at Camp Humphreys - we met on OKCupid!
About Me:
Living the dream
About Us:
We got married in 2009! We have two dogs and no kids ... DH is getting out in Sep 2012 and we are so happy to start our civilian life together.
Interests & Hobbies:
Reading, WoW, nerdy stuff like that
Dream Sheet:
Korea was a total dream for us ... we would have liked to have lived in Germany if DH stayed in
Regina Spektor, Alanis Morisette
Project Runway, America's Next Top Model, MasterChef
Scent of a Woman, Mystery Men, The Village
anything by Stephen King, Game of Thrones
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