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    Question would you say we're engaged?

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    Okay so DB and I are planning on getting married a few weeks after he gets back from Iraq. But he says that he wants to wait to "officially propose" until he gets home so he can actually put the ring on my finger, you know that whole thing. So would you say that we are engaged or we aren't technically engaged until he proposes?
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    If your actively planning a wedding,then i would say yes you are
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    I would say yes since you are planning a wedding....Congrats girl.
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    IM STUCK IN THE SAME SITUATION AS YOU CUZ DB WANTS TO GET MARRIED RIGHT WHEN HE GETS BACK SO THERE ISNT REALLY ANY TIME TO PROPOSE BUT I DONT KNOW I WOULD SAY YOUR IN BETWEEN. BUT SINCE YOU KNOW IT HAPPINING THEN YOU COULD JUST SAY YOU GUYS ARE. AND IF PEOPLE ASK WHERE IS THE RING JUST SAY HE DID IT OVER SEAS. CIVILIAN GURLS MIGHT NOT UNDERSTAND BUT OTHER MILITARY ONES SHOULD. gOOD LUCK AND CONGRATES
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    I think if you're actively planning a wedding not just saying "we're getting married when he gets back" but actually putting that plan into action (reserving a church, picking out invites, etc.) then it's ok to say you're engaged.

    I don't want to be pessimistic but I wouldn't want to say it until I had an official proposal.
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    id say you are too congrads
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    Congrats as well and I say that u are..u dont need the ring to prove that u are engaged..good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dori View Post
    I think if you're actively planning a wedding not just saying "we're getting married when he gets back" but actually putting that plan into action (reserving a church, picking out invites, etc.) then it's ok to say you're engaged.

    I don't want to be pessimistic but I wouldn't want to say it until I had an official proposal.
    I totally agree..

    Also, I'd think a good rule of thumb would be if you don't know, then no.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dori View Post
    I think if you're actively planning a wedding not just saying "we're getting married when he gets back" but actually putting that plan into action (reserving a church, picking out invites, etc.) then it's ok to say you're engaged.

    I don't want to be pessimistic but I wouldn't want to say it until I had an official proposal.
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