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    Confused hes sweet but im confused

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    Okay i got a letter from db and its a kinda confusing so im asking for your guys help.

    Hey babe,
    How are you doing? doing ok here. Been thinking about alot og things lately. Miss you so much. Im glad i met you so much. Needed someone like you. Have been thinking about marriage. Dont know if we have time for a big wedding when i am home on leave. if i am going to fast i can wait. I mean i geuss you can start planning now. But not sure when i am going toi be home on leave. Say we did would you move up to nc with me afterwards? there is a college close by. Sorry will talk about something else.(then he start on a new topic) what do you guys think this means? to me it kinda sounds like a proposel but not sure. Oh and he is over seas so i havnt gotten a call to talk to him about it. So i was wounder what it sounds like to you guys and do you think i should start planning? he is suppose to come home in feb.
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    I'd wait til I could talk to him.
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    Yeah it sounds like he is thinking about it, and if you want to slow it down just tell him. I'd wouldn't start planning until he calls and says it over the phone. But yeah- he's thinking about it.
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    i think hes thinking about it too, but wait til you get a call to find out for sure
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    He's definitely thinking about it!!


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    Sounds like one to me
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    Sounds to me like he's interested in marriage, but afraid that you aren't. Or that he feels like he's moving too fast and you aren't going to want that. He's afraid of rejection if he asks you more seriously, so he is making it sound vague
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    The ladies are right...that's a "sorta-proposal" as in he want to but isn't sure if u are feeling the same way. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Congrats if it works out.
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    I agree with what everyone else said. I think you should talk to him...confirm what's going on and make a decision. Good Luck.
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    Sounds like one to me, bless these guys military hearts, they just don't know how to come out and say it. HUGS
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