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    Yesterday dh and I were talking. I keep telling him how I am not confident with finances to have a baby. He then told me that he feels the same but knows we will budget better once we get used to my income being gone. Then he said he would rather get a second job then me go back to work. I am so happy he is so supportive with me being a SAHM. Even though I still stress about money (I have always been that way).
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    That's understandable. I'm the same way about finances, I like to keep control of my money, haha. Glad he's on the same side though. I'm sure you two will work it out!
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    im always so worried about money too..thank god we have men that understand us
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    he hates that I worry so much, but I grew up and didn't have jeans that fit and we went times w/o electricity. I don't ever want to get that bad.
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    Yeah I the worrier and df is not. He's always trying to get me to relax but I worry about money all the time. My dad raised my brother and I, so he was constantly worried and I must have picked it up from him!?
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    i grew up with a poor mom and a stingy dad. So i learned to save and why

    I do still splurge though
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    Im glad you two got to talk
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    thats good that you can talk like that. but with babys unless you win the lottery there is always going to be a time when you come up short. thats just how it goes. i stay at home because i dont know how the kids would handle both parents being gone a lot. and dh wants me too. i just had to cut back on some of my shopping but yes once you budget w/o your extra money it will be so easy after while. good luck. about the worry stuff i do it all the time but i know its going to be ok. i just always put my kids first. if i need new clothes and so do the kids, guess who gets them first.
    if you do have a baby make sure you have a good baby shower and invite like everyone!!!!

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