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    If you were to die tomorrow, would you want your husband/ SO to remarry?

    Please explain why.

    For me, yes, although I don't know if he knows that. I know how great it is to love him and I think people can love again. I want him to be happy if I pass.
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    I would want him to do whatever was best for him, if that ment falling inlove again and getting married,then so be it. Im dead anyways, what do I care
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    Yes, my reason is this...

    As many know I was married before, and my husband passed away.. He would want ME to be happy.. So in turn, I would want my SO to be happy if I passed I actually dreamed he came back to tell me he was happy I was happy, then left again

    We're from the country.. And we like it that way
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    I'm going to be selfish and say that I would hope he wouldn't
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    I want him to be happy, he even told me if something were to happen to him he wants me to move on, an find someone. We both want eachother happy.
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    Most definitely! Being in love is awesome. I wouldn't want him to spend the rest of his life mourning my death. I'd want him to miss me and mourn for a while, get himself back together, then hopefully start a new life. I know he loves me so remarrying wouldn't be a hit to my self esteem or anything... not that I'd actually have self esteem if I were dead, but you know what I mean I would want him to be happy and I'd want my kids to have a GOOD woman in their lives.
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    Quote Originally Posted by C'swife View Post
    I'm going to be selfish and say that I would hope he wouldn't

    , yay im not alone in thinking the same thing but seriously though I want him to do what makes him happy and if it's getting married again so be it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tifflovezyou View Post
    Yes, my reason is this...

    As many know I was married before, and my husband passed away.. He would want ME to be happy.. So in turn, I would want my SO to be happy if I passed I actually dreamed he came back to tell me he was happy I was happy, then left again
    awwww you know he helped you find your DF! that was his way of telling you he approves!
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    my thoughts go either way, I would want him to be happy, but I couldnt even imagine him loving someone else, it makes me sick to my stomach. So I guess it would be up to him
    Gotta look this life in the eye.
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    I would want him to be happy, so yes.
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