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    Blush phone play? maybe tmi...

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    so greggo has told me he wants to "play tonight" which of course can only be done via the phone right now. but i must say, i'm a virgin when it comes to stuff like that! as wild and experienced as I may be, kinda unsure of myself playing on the phone. girls, you have any good suggestions, or anything i can read to make it fun for both of us?

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    i enjoy "phone fun" my suggestions take a few pictures before hand and send them too him. make him take pictures too. set the mood for yourself, dim the lights, music...whatever turns you on. the just close your eyes and picture him there with you. trust me it works
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    I was wicked shy and insecure about the whole thing at first too, but trust me, it's a lot of fun! It helps me to picture what I'd be doing to him if he was there with me, and starting off with the locations where we actually are seems to help make it seem more real. Then again, fantasy is always great too. Just remember: it's all fun and no pressure.
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    Just close your eyes, listen to his voice, and imagine he's there with you...or think of times when he was home and what kinda fun things you two have done together..always leads to good conversation
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    I like phone fun.Just relax.And imagine that your together.And take it slow.And talk about what you two would be doing if you were together.



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    The more descriptive you can be the better. Guys are visual people so if you can make him visually see whats happening, you're good to go!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by vcarlson View Post
    i enjoy "phone fun" my suggestions take a few pictures before hand and send them too him. make him take pictures too. set the mood for yourself, dim the lights, music...whatever turns you on. the just close your eyes and picture him there with you. trust me it works

    i totally agree with sending him pics i send them to dh all the time and i get requests for them i like knowing he looks at me not at porn! believe me once you get in the mood you will love phone fun!
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    Quote Originally Posted by vcarlson View Post
    i enjoy "phone fun" my suggestions take a few pictures before hand and send them too him. make him take pictures too. set the mood for yourself, dim the lights, music...whatever turns you on. the just close your eyes and picture him there with you. trust me it works
    I totally agree! Don't be afraid to try something new, you might find that you really enjoy it.

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    I tried to have phone sex once when my boyfriend was in Oklahoma for pre-deployment training. However, he couldn't say anything to me because he couldn't go anywhere to be alone and he was standing in a hallway. Which I thought was kind of ridiculous that it all had to be on my end, but I figured I'd give it a try. Haha, total failure! I was nervous and really couldn't concentrate on myself while trying to keep the whole thing going on my end and make it interesting for him so it was taking a loooong time and then someone walked by him in the hall and yelled, "What's goin' on, [his last name]" and I burst into giggles and just couldn't do it anymore. Er...at least we tried! But once he gets internet in his trailer in Iraq we're going to be able to do the webcam thing...so maybe that will present more possibilities? We'll see...he only has one roommate so perhaps we could get some privacy to try at some point!
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    om me if you want a site with erotic stories. you can read one to him and not feel like a doof for "talking sexy" or whatever that can make you uncomfortable.

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